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Why do men look or stare and do not say anything?

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Article - (10 August 2009) 7 Comments - (Newest, 11 September 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Sometimes I am on the street or out with other people and men just look or stare and dont say anything to me, I am wondering if this is normal behavior, they must just like to see all of the goodness. Anyone and everyone who got good responses help me out on this article or tell me what is the meaning?. Thanks in advance, have a wonderful week.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009):

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Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009):

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Thanks everyone all of your advice has been wonderful and helpful, have a good week.

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A male reader, Just Gene the Marine United States +, writes (18 August 2009):

We do it cause you are of intrest you are a thing of beauty and art. Well thats what I think lol.

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A female reader, beachbabe Chile +, writes (17 August 2009):

beachbabe agony auntthat happens to me tons. They are starring at you because your are beautiful!! you should smile at them when you notice it, that shows that your confident and know your beautiful =]

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A male reader, Longterm United States +, writes (15 August 2009):

I do this all the time, and I hate myself for it. I'm intimidated by beautiful women. Sometimes they'll start conversations with me, then everything is fine and we can have a normal conversation. But I have a really hard time breaking the ice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009):

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Hi thank you all, I appreciate every advices.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009):

I think it is definitely normal! I think these guys are probably just enjoying looking at someone they see as attractive!

It's not just guys really. I think we are all drawn to things we find beautiful. There have been times when I have seen somebody I thought was beautiful, or perhaps unusual looking, or interesting, and I have had a hard time looking away. I think it is a natural thing that we do as people.

As for them not talking to you...well, do you go and talk to everybody you look at, or find attractive? Probably not! I think most people are just content to look. It could be that these guys are already in a relationship, and are not looking for anybody else. But they can't help looking anyway. Again, that is normal.

Or maybe they are shy, and don't know what to say. Maybe they think you wouldn't be interested. Maybe they are trying to get your attention by staring. There could be all sorts of reasons.

But on the whole though, I certainly think it is normal behaviour, and nothing to worry about. Next time it happens though, if you'd like to, maybe you could smile, and see what happens? Just a suggestion! xx

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