He always has porn on when he makes love to me...
Q. I was sexually abused as a child and as a result I have problems in bed. I have had therapy on and off for years. I think I am doing better, but my partner tells me I am not, he has told me I am boring in bed and if it wasn't for porn he would not ...
A. 9 March 2008: You were abused as a child. You deserve to have a good life and be happy. My opinion is that your partner himself has issues and needs to deal with them. I think that because of what you have been through as a child and because you will still have ... (read in full...)
I don't want to break-up with her and then to start craving her again...and I know it would tear her world apart. What do I do??
Q. I started dating this girl about 4 years ago in June. Things were great for the first year or two, all loved up ect, ect, ect. She started hanging out with guys which she told me was just "old school mates"; so I had to trust her, and I tried. ...
A. 26 February 2008: To be honest I don't think that you can listen to people who tell you to leave her etc. You have to go with your own feelings and if it were really time to leave her and you really have had enough then it would be easier to walk away. Something ... (read in full...)
I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!
Q. im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact tha...
A. 28 January 2008: OK. That's fair enough...you're not all bad then!! Some people can be selfish when it comes to sex....they're receivers but not givers. Next time she asks why don't you just say no and see what she says. You know whether you like her enough to want ... (read in full...)
Am I being played?
Q. I've been dating the same guy for almost a year now and slowly over the last 6 months or so i've been discovering many hurtfull signs of him being missleading and even plain out lying to me. Such as having hundreds of pictures of his ex gf and ...
A. 27 January 2008: Sorry...yes you are being played. The guy has no respect for you or enough deep feelings to stop himself from 'playing'and he does it because he can. I have been there...I dated a guy for three years and I caught him out four times. I finally walked ... (read in full...)
Is she causing trouble?
Q. I met a new attractive guy. My one friend who currently has a boyfriend said she was making it her mission to find me a guy. After a night of hanging out with the new cute guy, she asks me if I like him, and if I would ever date him. I tell her ...
A. 27 January 2008: Who was hanging out with the guy - you or her...or both??
Friends are not always 'friends'....it's difficult to find a true friend who won't let you down given the chance.
I remember being at College once and really fancying a guy for months b... (read in full...)
Confusion regarding anal sex
Q. dose anal sex hurt? i kno people that say it dose! and that say it dosent? i wanna try it but in scared.... someone help plz...
A. 27 January 2008: Crickey!! It's hardly a problem!! You know what pain feels like. Try it and if it hurts....STOP!...if it doesn't then do what you want. Life is full of options/choices...it's a decision you have to make.... (read in full...)
I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!
Q. im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact tha...
A. 27 January 2008: You either like her or you don't. Clearly you don't as you seem to be concerned with just the sexual part of your relationship (if you have one!). Have you ever stopped to think that your girlfriend may not be ready to do whatever you want her to ... (read in full...)
I go down on her but she won't repay the favour. Contemplating break up!
Q. im 17 n want my gf to give me head but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer. and shes done it b4 with her ex and sum random guy when she was drunk and blacked out just that the fact tha...
A. 27 January 2008: You either like her or you don't. Clearly you don't as you seem to be concerned with just the sexual part of your relationship (if you have one). ... (read in full...)
He asks for the girl's number but does not call in the following week. What strategy is this?
Q. if a guy asks u for ur phone number and you give it to him but he doesn't call you in over a week is there something wrong?...
A. 27 January 2008: To be absolutely honest...lot's of guys take women's numbers and few call even if they promise. Normally it's due to them already having a girlfriend (sorry!!)....so many of my male friends tell me that they take numbers because they feel good about ... (read in full...)
What exactly is my ex doing? Playing with my head, being friendly or maybe wanting me back?
Q. Ok well cut a long story short, me and my serious boyfriend split up just under 5months ago (his choice i was heartbroken). He did some bad things to me since we split e.g got with (snogged) one of my ex best mates and sent me a photo of it, posted ...
A. 27 January 2008: Be brave and walk away. Your ex wants to have his cake and eat it and obviously dreads the thought of YOU moving on with your life and forgetting he existed. He obviously has insecurities and needs to be loved and wanted and that's why he plays ... (read in full...)
Arranged marriage ruining my life
Q. i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged...
A. 27 January 2008: You need to take a deep breath, calm down and make a list of your options. There is no point in panicking and getting all upset....you either do what you can to make yourself happy or you go along with what has been planned for you. You can apply to ... (read in full...)
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