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Should I stick around as a friend and risk getting hurt?

Q.   Hi. So, I've just come out of a relationship with the most fantastic person I have ever met. We were together for 3 months and she's beautiful, challenging, intelligent, and has made me feel amazing! She broke it off because of a lot of things going ...

A.   13 April 2010: Hi What you have is indeed a very painful situation. It is not wise to cling on to something that may never happen. The best thing you can do is tell her exactly how you feel, leave the ball in her court and then go away and let her be. After a m... (read in full...)

Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?

Q.   my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...

A.   13 April 2010: Hi Firstly I completely understand where you are coming from and how you must feel about this lady and the situation. I don't think you are being totally unreasonable but I also don't think you are looking at this from any other persons view but... (read in full...)

I'm in love with both my ex, and my new boyfriend.

Q.   I think I'm still in love with my ex. I had a very quick relationship with him where nothing really happened, after many months of flirting and becoming close. After we broke up, We still carried on like we were going out, So nothing really went any...

A.   12 April 2010: Hi This does sound like a peculiar relationship, it sounds to me like he prefers to have girls as friends then lovers but enjoys intimacy too. He may enjoy the company and listening skills of females but might prefer love from the same sex. Or he mi... (read in full...)

Should I just isolate myself from women forever?

Q.   I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...

A.   12 April 2010: Hi I'm probably just repeating what most are saying here. You probably felt that at 30 your time was running out and when you do find that special someone you wanted it to be perfect so you thought that an escort would be the answering and give you ... (read in full...)

Should I trust him?

Q.   i am having trouble trusting my man, before i was with him, he was in a relationship,and also seeing somebody else. when i got with him over a year ago he had ended his relationship, and told me he was no longer seeing the other girl. later i found ...

A.   12 April 2010: Hi Firstly are you absolutely sure that he is not responding to any of these text's and face book messages etc whilst you are not around? If he definately isn't then he needs to decide what he really wants. If you cannot trust that he is only fri... (read in full...)

His masturbating is affecting our sex life, ...and my confidence!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have had a pretty decent sex life (2-4 times per week) until about 3 or 4 months ago and then everything changed. He says he's just not really in the mood for sex ever but I know that he ...

A.   12 April 2010: Hi To start with unfortunately women have been persuaded that men are up-for-it all the time, so as soon as he says he doesn't feel like it, we immediately begin to blame ourselves. Do I not have the experience, am I boring, does he not like my ... (read in full...)

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