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No longer attracted to my wife. Not sure about moving in with the other woman. Help!

Q.   Very Confused. I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have also been seeing another woman whom I fell in love with. I have sex with her, but not with my wife. My wife is a wonderful caring person. She gained weight and I no longer find her ...

A.   6 July 2005: You have treated this bright, honest woman with no respect. How do you think she will feel when she discovers you have betrayed her? Not only are you mucking about your wife but also this other woman, she now has a child with a different man, is ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend recently told me that he isn't sure he loves me any more...

Q.   I need help. I love my boyfriend with all my heart but recently he said that he wasn't sure that he loved me anymore. I have been going out with him for 3 and a half years and for a large amount of that this relationship has been long distance. H...

A.   6 July 2005: I am in exactly the same position as you! i thought things were going fantastically, but apparently not. he cheated on me and is now seeing someone else. I too was with this guy for 3 years and thought i could marry him, but things change. We tried ... (read in full...)

My new friend at university went from kind to cold. What happened?

Q.   Today is the first day in University, I can't get along with others. I'm so worried about that but good luck to me I have one new friend. She is friendly and very kind with everyone. After couple days, She has many friends everyone want to be her ...

A.   6 July 2005: what!? get the hell away from this girl, shes treating you like scum! You are at university, the best time of your life! guarenteed your scared, but who isn't? everyone is in the same position, everyone wants new friends, what you must do is open ... (read in full...)

Now that my g/f is ready for sex, I can hardly keep up! How can I make it better for her?

Q.   My girlfriend and me have been dating for almost 2 years, and we just really got into sex recently, we didn't do anything for over a year, I didn't pressure her because I really like her and all of a sudden she just came around and I can hardly keep ...

A.   6 July 2005: If you feel like your going to come, stop,maybe go down on her for a bit, while you chill out. Try and work out the best position for her, a fave of mine is guy below, but you need to have a variety so she will know what she likes. You could app... (read in full...)

He read my email without even consulting me! I've got nothing to hide, but don't I deserve my privacy?

Q.   The other day, I was writing an e-mail to my girlfriend. She had told me some very personal information and I was replying to some concerns she had about her upcoming divorce. When I left the computer to answer the phone, my boyfriend had came to my ...

A.   6 July 2005: I think you have every right to get angry, this is your privacy, and your boyfriend has invaded it. But i think that everyone likes to have a sneak about at some point, we always want to know something that we shouldn't, its human instinct! So talk ... (read in full...)

Broke up with my boyfriend, but I now realise that I'm still madly in love with him!

Q.   I bet you're all thinking 14 year old girl saying she's in love is all wrong, but I'm being deadly serious. I went out with this guy (the same age as me) about a year ago an when we finished after being together for about 3 months I realised...

A.   6 July 2005: If you really think that you are in Love with this guy, think about what he's feeling as well. When you're in love you couldn't give a damn about anyone else in the world, all you want is to be with them. While it sounds like you feel this way, y... (read in full...)

I'm tired of just lying there during sex. I want to know how to make it better for him!

Q.   I am a 15yr old girl and I've had sex before and all but I still don't know what to do. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but I want to know what way to move and how to pleasure a lad....

A.   6 July 2005: I agree that you are too young to be having sex. I had sex just after my 16th but I was also in love with this guy and stayed with him for nearly 3 years. When you love someone you will now how to move with him, know what he likes and will enjoy it ... (read in full...)

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