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writes: My girlfriend and me have been dating for almost 2 years, and we just really got into sex recently, we didn't do anything for over a year, I didn't pressure her because I really like her and all of a sudden she just came around and I can hardly keep up!I have 2 problems...I can't give her a vaginal orgasm, but she comes with my hands and oral easy. I believe I'm average in size, she says I'm bigger, but I think that's just to make me feel good...any help with this would be superb...These ?s relate a lot...Sometimes I can go as long as I want, I'm in complete control of myself...but a lot of the times it seems like I'm ready to come way too fast, and I enjoy making her orgasm...a lot...I just want to know what I can do to last longer, every time
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
It's nice to see a man so happy to please his girlfriend!
women don't always want you to last a long time, especially if an orgasm is just not happening. To be frank it can get sore and boring! sometimes quickies are the best.
Sex does not have to be about penetration. take time to explore each other. Give her a massage or explore some of your other senses.
Finally, the best sex can come through emotional closeness so develop your bond outside the bedroom and reap the rewards.
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reader, liligray +, writes (6 July 2005):
If you feel like your going to come, stop,maybe go down on her for a bit, while you chill out. Try and work out the best position for her, a fave of mine is guy below, but you need to have a variety so she will know what she likes. You could approach this very subtly and just gradually introduce things, but you should also talk to her, ask her what she wants, if you can't talk about it, you shouldnt be doing it! Also realise that this horny stage doesnt always last, there is more to a relationship than sex, and dont forget this while your getting jiggy! remember to be affectionate even when you don't want sex otherwise insecurities arise, good luck!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
you dont need to last longer every time. Also women dont need to have an orgasm every time to enjoy sex. Try new things and dont see sex as a means to an end all the time.
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