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I'm currently 19 years of age, I live in Scotland and go to university where I study Immunology and Microbiology which has been a blast so far.
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My friends tell me to be myself, but then they tell me I'm boring!
Q. I have always been a "worry-wart" and very cautious person- I'm introverted and am a homebody. My friends on the other hand are all outgoing, extroverts who like to socialize with everyone and party. Two of my friends have said that I was "boring." ...
A. 17 December 2009: Wow, I know this problem. I've had this issue, too. "You'll get a date! You're wonderful! Just be yourself!" and then suddenly "You can be so boring. Loosen up!" I don't think there is any other way you can be with potential partners, though... (read in full...)
How do I attract a guy that doesn't want me for sex
Q. so all my friends have boyfriends and have already lost there virginity. they dont pick on me for still being a virgin but they dont really talk about anything else beside haveing sex. i am really focused on school and haveing a job. im almost 17 ...
A. 17 December 2009: At the age you are now, it's highly unlikely that you'll find a boy within your age range who really likes you and never thinks about sex. Hormones are going crazy and their thoughts are racing with "sexsexsexsexsex"
That doesn't mean you can't st... (read in full...)
A stranger came in to my husband's work today and asked if he'd spent the night with his 18 year old daugher!
Q. I've been with my husband for 15 years now and we have 3 kids together. Today some man my husband claims not to know came to his work today. Only 4 people work there but this man came straight to him, called him by name and asked my husband if his ...
A. 25 July 2008: This is tricky, and there's so much we know, and so much we don't. Did your husband come home from work and remark "An odd thing happened at work today..." or were you witness to it?
If it's the first one, ask yourself "Why would he bother t... (read in full...)
Why do I fall in love with Scandinavians?
Q. This might sound strange, so bear with me on this one. My sister was involved in an international goodwill type show, and there was the most adorable Swedish boy there with whom I instantly fell in love. Even to this day I still remember his nam...
A. 24 July 2008: Anonymous reader, that wouldn't help as I live in Scotland.
It's not that it's a problem, and technically, that's not really the question I asked.
Spirit Of Iona, nooooo, I have a Scottish girl's name :D
Thanks for your answer, it made me ... (read in full...)
Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?
Q. Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious......
A. 24 July 2008: Yes, in several different ways. For example, as already pointed out, HPV can be spread with skin-to-skin contact. Blood transfusions (very rarely) can transmit diseases. Drug users are at terrible risk of contracting them. And you can be born with a ... (read in full...)
We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?
Q. hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there :) I wouldn't worry too much - at 16 to 17, your body is still developing (believe it or not) which means your periods may still jump around a bit. At nineteen, mine still do! There's such a low chance that you're pregnant but tak... (read in full...)
Am I gay because of what I did?
Q. Am I gay Over the last year I have been watching gay porn. At first it was just one or twice here and there. At this point it was just to see what was what. After watching a few time it started turning me on I enjoyed it more and more. A...
A. 23 February 2008: It sounds like you are gay or possibly bisexual, though more into men. It also sounds like you have a bit of denial going on, almost like you want us to tell you "of course not, it was just one night". You shouldn't be worried about your sexua... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed with my university lecturer?
Q. I'm worried that I may be obsessed with one of my lecturers at uni. He's incredibly interesting and despite the fact that he's extremely terrifying, he's so passionate and intelligent. I find myself looking him up in my free time and with desire to ...
A. 18 February 2008: mm2u, thanks for your answer, it's extremely positive, something I haven't been able to be. I wouldn't start anything up. As weird as it sounds, I care about him enough to know that he's passionate about his career, and he'd be crushed if he we... (read in full...)
Should I tell him or forget about it and can I confide in my best friend??
Q. I've got a problem. I'm in love with a very good friend of mine. I hang out a lot with 3 friends of mine but I'm only going to mention 2 of them: Vicky and Colin The more time I spend with them, well Colin, the deeper I fall in love with him. He ...
A. 18 February 2008: This is a tricky one, and I was in a similar situation. I told the guy, and something weird happened. We became best friends.
However, we were already really great friends to begin with. If you have a really good relationship with this guy and ... (read in full...)
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