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The woman I'm dating is 5 years older than I was lead to believe.

Q.   I found out the woman I have been seeing is older (5 years) than I thought. In a nutshell, I am almost 52 have been seeing a gal for going on the 4 th month. In her profile she said she was 53 and to be honest with you, when I met her I couldn't b...

A.   4 December 2010: Crikey, she isn't that much older than you! But I can see your angst in this. I am 44 but can easily date guys who are 30 lol, so I am with her on that!! Go Girl. Your problem is now you know she is older you look at her differently, like an ... (read in full...)

I think he likes me, but doesn't realize it... how can make him realize it?

Q.   My best friend, an artist, is extremely caring and sensitive about me. Goes out f his way to help me, hangs around with me, gives me the sincerest advice, never refuses me, whenever i want to meet up...he never refuses, even if busy...likes to share ...

A.   4 December 2010: Stay out of contact for a while see what happens. I would not ask him, just do the old "give him the gift of missing you". He is not stupid if he wanted more, or realised in your absence he wants more 'you will know'. Relax lean back.... (read in full...)

He cheated on me and I'm left feeling confused!

Q.   Okay, so my question is should i break up with him or stay with him and see if it will work out? So i was dating my current boyfriend for 3 months and it was going perfect. i couldn't have asked for a better boyfriend. then a week before our 4 mon...

A.   4 December 2010: You have forgiven him and taken him back. THATS IT. You cannot let this bother you or use it against him, it was your choice to take him back so you have to forget it happened OR it will destroy your relationship. By taking him back he assumes all ... (read in full...)

Interpreting mixed messages.

Q.   Hey there, OK, so here's the deal. Essentially I'm getting mixed messages from a very good (female) friend of mine. Up until a couple weeks ago, I had been in a long term relationship, but I chose to end it essentially because I wasn't hap...

A.   4 December 2010: To her you are safe and comfortable to be around, and she is happy with it like that. If she wanted something more you can be sure "you would know". She does not feel any pressure from you. If you want to know how she really feels, date someone ... (read in full...)

I can't move on because I can't make sense of what happened with ex!

Q.   I need advice on how I can move my life on after a traumatic relationship. I want to forget her. I thought I was over my ex but I can't move on because I can't make sense of what happened. I'm in my 30s and she's in her late 20s and we started d...

A.   25 November 2010: Sounds she may love you as a person but she is not in love with you, your friend saying that was wrong how would he know what she felt! I am sure you will never forget her, but you have to move on. I think one day she will try and contact you ... (read in full...)

Why do we set up dates and then she cancels?

Q.   There is this girl I met 2 weeks ago. We were both interested and tried to meet twice. Both times she had to cancel and postpone. Even though I believe she had had good reasons to do so, I don't feel like setting up dates to have her cancel t...

A.   23 November 2010: Yup, back off and wait for her to set up the next date. You have made an effort, if she doesn't make an effort back then let it go.... (read in full...)

I want to give my boyfriend a real sexy treat any suggestions?

Q.   Hey everyone I'm going home to my gorgeous man after a month away on business! I've lost quite a bit of weight in the month so am feeling more confident about myself!! Anyway am wondering any tips on giving him a real sexy treat when I get back,...

A.   23 November 2010: Good for you, improving your self confidence, and losing weight, its a great feeling. Men love confident women especially in the bedroom. SOOO go lingerie shopping, get the smokey eyes happening and at all times keep that confidence, and when the ... (read in full...)

Long Distance - Not Allowed - Relationship

Q.   So I had a very serious relationship last year and it ended in July 16, 2010. After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk for awhile, and he got a new girlfriend and everything and he started talking to me again and he still had strong feelings for ...

A.   23 November 2010: You broke up and he dated another girl. Did you date another guy? He wants to wait until he is 18 before the parents meet. Sounds to me like he is calling the shots in this relationship. I would sit back relax and do fun things and tell him when ... (read in full...)

Has he lost interest, moved on, what??

Q.   I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been apart for the past month but have lived together for four months proceeding him leaving and were a couple. He's gone to the other side of the country for four months so that he can renew ...

A.   22 November 2010: Give him the gift of missing you, your past is your past and you should not have to justify that to him. There is nothing you can do to change that. Your relationship starts from the time you meet. Cultural differences are very strong. Sounds ... (read in full...)

Does he like her more than me?

Q.   ok soo like this boy (lets call him umm jami) yea soo me and him always flirting and stuff. he said he had a dream about me a few times and i be dreaming about him to. hes always touching me and laughing at almost everything i say i catch him ...

A.   22 November 2010: Don't let him see it bothers you, don't let him play the game its an ego thing for a guy, having a few girls fawning over him he can play one against the other. If you are in a group and he starts flirting with the other girl, just walk away and do ... (read in full...)

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