When we argue, he calls me hurtful things. Am I at fault?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having problems latly, and when arguing, he starts calling me fat, lazy, messed up and other hurtful things. I have got a bad attitude problem. Is he saying all this stuff because I make him??...
A. 23 April 2005: You mentioned that you have got a very bad attitude problem. Have you ever tried to change for the better? Is this the main reason why you guys argue? If yes you need to change as your boyfriend sees this as the root of the problem. Probably what he ... (read in full...)
Now that he's told everyone he likes me, I feel like I have to go out with him...
Q. There's this guy that I know and have known for years. Loads of people recently have told me that he fancies me, and today another guy said this guy was going to ask me out. But I don't know whether I like him properly or not, but now he has ...
A. 23 April 2005: He seems to be putting pressure on you to go out with him by telling others that he likes you & that he's going to ask you out. But remember this you are under no obligation to go out with him just because he has declared he likes you to loads of ... (read in full...)
Should we end it, since he doesn't say "I love you" any more?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 yr old. We have been dating for 6 months. I really like him and we say 'I love you', but lately he's been acting weird. He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex. I know this is ...
A. 23 April 2005: From what I see it, I think the problem may have got to do with this sentence "He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex". Probably I'm reading too much into this sentence but I think your boyfriend is ... (read in full...)
He wants to kiss me and I want him to... then I stop him...
Q. I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year. He was my first boyfriend so that leaves me pretty inexperienced. There are times when we're alone and he leans in but doesn't kiss me or anything but I know he wants to. Everytime he actually ...
A. 22 April 2005: I'm not quite sure what is on your boyfriend's mind now but if I was him I would probably be confused. In my opinion I think you have sent him a wrong signal. You're telling him something like you're not ready to be kissed. But don't worry he would ... (read in full...)
Need a girlfriend, but where can I meet girls?
Q. Hiya, I'm a 17yr old lad and I need a girlfriend! Thing is, I hardly see any girls anymore to chat up, since I left school. All my friends see loads of girls all the time and nearly all of them have girlfriends, cos they all go to a differen...
A. 22 April 2005: Up to a certain extent it may have got to do with the college that you're in now. But that isn't the main problem I guess. The main problem is probably you. Don't compare yourself with your friends. You guys are not the same. You'll only make things ... (read in full...)
He's so quiet and shy that I can't tell if he'd be interested in me! Do I ask him out?
Q. Hi everyone! I REALLY need some advice and hope someone (or a lot of people) can really help me on this one. It's kinda long.... Well, here goes.... I work in a computer lab facility at a college, and I just began noticing this student....
A. 22 April 2005: Before I answer your question ask these questions to yourself: Is there any indication that he likes you? For example like always looking or smiling at you? If he did smile or look at you then there is a possibility that he likes you. My advice... (read in full...)
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