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writes: I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 yr old. We have been dating for 6 months. I really like him and we say 'I love you', but lately he's been acting weird. He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex. I know this is not true but what should I do? I try talking about it and he just says something's wrong with me and I'm just worrying.Do you think it should be over?
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reader, KickRox  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 Hi,
Good responses. I will give my own opinion since I'm on the same boat. :) I believe communication is the key to any relationship. As a matter of fact..I'm going out with my boyfriend tonight and planning to sit down and talk to him about that.
Keep me posted..And good luck to both of us! Lol.
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reader, Last Kiss +, writes (23 April 2005):
From what I see it, I think the problem may have got to do with this sentence "He doesn't say it any more and he said people only say I love you if they have sex". Probably I'm reading too much into this sentence but I think your boyfriend is confused with love & sex. There is a possibility that he wants some but he doesn't know how to ask you. Or probably he's worried of asking you for fear you might reject him. Remember some guys take rejection seriously. You said that he's been acting weird. How weird is the weird? You should have explained more on that.I know you love him but now is the time to find out whether he really loves you as much as you love him. Communication is very important in a relationship. Talk to him & try to find out what is troubling him. If you cannot get him to talk then try talking to his best mates. He seems reluctant to talk & take the easy way out by saying that there's something wrong with you.Don't worry too much about whether it should be over or not. Try to solve the problem first & find out the truth on why he is acting weird & doesn't say 'I love you' to you anymore.Good luck & I hope things will be alright for you. Stay positive!
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reader, Kmoney18 +, writes (22 April 2005):
I dont think that you should end things because he doesnt say "I love you". honeslty I think he is to young to really know what love is. The question is, do you love him as much as you say you do? If you truley love him, and he is telling you not to worry, then I think you should hang on, and let him be the one to end things, if he so chooses. In the mean time hang in there, try talking to him a little more, talk to some of his friends, see if there is something bothering him, in the long run I imangine things will work out for ya!
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