I love my friend but he is married!
Q. Hello, I'm in love with my friend and he loves me as well madly! The problem lurks in the fact that he's married !! First of all, regard the fact that we are muslims while analyzing our story ( as for the traditions, customs, etc..) Las...
A. 26 April 2012: As a Muslim he is not supposed to drink alcohol, it seems to me he is a Muslim when it suits and not when it doesn't. You need to find a nice Muslim man who will cherish you and not lay all his issues/problems onto you. He's a weak man - get rid ... (read in full...)
My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.
Q. Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...
A. 26 April 2012: The thing about fantasy is it should STAY fantasy. Sharing someone you love is never going to work. You must speak to your wife soon and tell her how you really feel, explain to her sleeping with another man is a no go! Maybe if she is feeling ... (read in full...)
I am separating, but my male friend is dating someone else. Why won't he wait for me?
Q. Here is my story. I am in the process of separating from my husband. The separation is in the beginning stages. We are going forward with it but are in the process of selling our home. Hubby works in another city and is rarely home which makes it ...
A. 26 April 2012: I think he cares but I also think that maybe the thought of you and your kids has left him a little overwhelmed. Did he say he wanted you and your children after your marriage is ended? It's a big ask to expect him to enter a full time relationship ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion on a 25 year age gap ?
Q. Is it too much ? Because for the past 2 years i have been really attracted to someone who is 25 years older . I am not looking for 'the father figure' or he isn't looking for 'sex' . But would it be stupid for us to try and date? Is the gap just too ...
A. 26 April 2012: I suppose it could work but being married to a man 18yrs my senior I would say NO it doesn't work long term. I'm in my early 40's and still ambitious and adventurous he is almost 60 and just wants to amble around. As he has become older ill health ... (read in full...)
Have I upset him or is he just bored of me?
Q. I have a male friend who I met while we worked together. After our job was done we would chat constantly and I know he is always online and we flirt with each other. We have been talking this way since January and he usually gets on his phone to ...
A. 26 April 2012: He could be busy (but it only takes a few seconds to send a text)If he isn't responding to your messages maybe you have become a little clingy without realizing it and he's decided to cool things. I think you should leave things for a while and ... (read in full...)
Would you prefer that someone lie or tell you the truth when breaking up?
Q. Hi. I have heard of a few breakups from my friends. (They dated other people, and got dumped.). About 50% of those friends of mine said they trusted the dumper more, due to the dumper having been truthful about the breakup reasons, while the other ...
A. 25 April 2012: Personally I'd want to be told the truth no matter how painful, to be lied to would add insult to injury.... (read in full...)
Am I getting into the wrong relationship?
Q. I am 10 months into a relationship after a painful divorce. My previous marriage consisted of 1 son and a step daughter. My girlfriend has 1 son and we get on. my main concern is my (ex) step daughter. My girlfriend is constantly telling me stop ...
A. 25 April 2012: Your stepdaughter considers you to be her daddy, if your NEW girlfriend doesn't appreciate your love for your stepdaughter and your need to see her. Then she is either a knave or a fool and certainly not worth your time. She should be wanting all ... (read in full...)
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