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Peer pressure about sex/virginity

Q.   Heya! I was just wondering about some help for peer pressure. Basically I'm almost 18, but I'm still a virgin when all of my friends are not. I'm getting a bit sick of every conversation I have with my friends having something to do with sex as it ...

A.   10 November 2011: Dont be the slightest bit ashamed, you are a stronger woman than all of your friends you have pride in yourself and need to be respected. Im a 16 year old girl who has not had sex ethier and i get down about it too but who doesnt. Like everyone else ... (read in full...)

Why does she not trust me?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now and I really trust her in every way. However she has major trust issues, they are not over anything major but just little things. It gets to the point where she won't leave her phone ...

A.   30 April 2011: Some girls and guys have trouble trusting others more then others do, she might have been betrayed in the past by a good friend or something. I have friends who will open up to me and some who hide thier pain. I also am careful who I trust you earn ... (read in full...)

How can I make him learn to like me?

Q.   OK, Im 14 but i really like a 19 year old.... I just need advice on to how to make him to learn to like me? Help?...

A.   30 April 2011: You cant make someone like you they have to do that on thier own. I know we have all been there wanting someone to like us back but sometimes they dont. All I have to say is let it be and be yourself because pretending to be someone else just to ... (read in full...)

How can I make him learn to like me?

Q.   OK, Im 14 but i really like a 19 year old.... I just need advice on to how to make him to learn to like me? Help?...

A.   30 April 2011: You can make someone like you they have to do that on thier own. I know we have all been there wanting someone to like us back but sometimes they dont. All I have to say is let it be and be yourself because pretending to be someone else just to ... (read in full...)

I like this boy. How can I find out if he likes me back, without making it too obvious??

Q.   i really like this guy that's in my band class and art club, we talk sometimes and stuff and i really wanna get to know him better and maybe see if he likes me back without being too obvious. i need help!!!!!!!!!!11...

A.   30 April 2011: Whatever you do DO NOT move too fast, you are wise to want to get to know him better first. Because you might scare him off flirting too fast you might scare him off. Or lets say you two did get together, and you find something you really didnt like ... (read in full...)

I like this boy. How can I find out if he likes me back, without making it too obvious??

Q.   i really like this guy that's in my band class and art club, we talk sometimes and stuff and i really wanna get to know him better and maybe see if he likes me back without being too obvious. i need help!!!!!!!!!!11...

A.   30 April 2011: Whatever you do DO NOT rush things, your wise to try to get to know him before you do anything. Because youmight scare him off or if you two did get together too fast you might find something you dont like about him while your dating wich brings ... (read in full...)

I like this boy. How can I find out if he likes me back, without making it too obvious??

Q.   i really like this guy that's in my band class and art club, we talk sometimes and stuff and i really wanna get to know him better and maybe see if he likes me back without being too obvious. i need help!!!!!!!!!!11...

A.   30 April 2011: Just be yourself and DO NOT move to fast, I think your wise to want to get to know him better. Because if you move to fast you might find out something later you dont like or dont want to be with him. So be friends keep the talking going flirt a ... (read in full...)

How do we trust our friend who bailed on us?

Q.   Hi, last night my 3 friends and I decided we were all gonna get dressed and ready for winterball together. But at the last minute one of them bailed and went with other girls, even though we had been planing for weeks. So my other friend and I get ...

A.   31 January 2011: Um no ok im gonna put it this way A (is my friend who bailed) B (is my friend who came with me) we left with B's bf not A's because the dance was super boring ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always talks about sex with me on the messenger

Q.   Every time my boyfriend and I talk on the messenger, he always talking about sex with me but I'm not in the mood to talk about sex with my boyfriend because I'm not so horny as my boyfriend, And when he and I are together we always get very hor...

A.   16 January 2011: That's good! he probly doesnt on the phone because its easier to type or text how u feel instead of talking about it. So if u cant talk on the phone with out any sex talk u can definatly talk on messanger!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always talks about sex with me on the messenger

Q.   Every time my boyfriend and I talk on the messenger, he always talking about sex with me but I'm not in the mood to talk about sex with my boyfriend because I'm not so horny as my boyfriend, And when he and I are together we always get very hor...

A.   16 January 2011: I know how you feel! talking about sex 247 gets a lil annoying. Tell your boyfriend that you want to talk about something other then sex. Like you start the conversation about something else and if he changes it something sexual, try changing it and ... (read in full...)

My best friend has no time for me!

Q.   I have this friend who I thought was my best friend but lately, she has been "busy" ive asked to hang out with her 7 times in the past 4 months. She even promised me we would hang out over vaction and we didnt! She still texts me and stuff but im ...

A.   3 January 2011: I dont think so she tells me when shes dating someone even before it happens!... (read in full...)

How come being a devoted girlfriend is not enough?

Q.   Trying to make the decision either to ignore statements or end it w boyfriend. Been together 8 years. Tired of his comments that he would like to see me w another man or women. I understand more of him wanting to see me w another women, most men...

A.   3 January 2011: You may be right if he wants to see you with another man, he may be hinting to you that he is getting tired of you. I know this because ive done this with my boyfriend, ive hinted to him that I was getting tired of the realationship. He might want ... (read in full...)

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