My bf wanting sex so soon makes me doubt his values...have I got him all wrong??
Q. I am pretty confused about 'who' my bf is. What I mean is, on one hand he comes from a strict religous family who have very high morals and values. His family are so nice, caring and loving. The men in his family treat women so well and I guess yo...
A. 2 March 2008: You have every right to question his motives. I mean if you say his family is the way you say they are then, something is seriously amiss. If you're not ready, you're not ready and that's it. He has to accept that and he needs to back off, but if he ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 13 February 2008: You're welcome BrknHrted. All the very best! I'm sure Mr. Right will come along one day. ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 11 February 2008: Thank you for the clarification. Plain and simple - sorry if this sounds blunt - but you've done what you've done and it's happened - you can't change it. To be honest, it doesn't sound like he's the kind of person worthy of you wasting your tim... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 9 February 2008: Dear BrknHrted, I'm sorry to hear that this is happening to you. I went though an extremely similar situation about 12 months ago. At the time, it seemed like the hardest time of my life. It is very hard and unfortunately it may get worse before... (read in full...)
Do I chose my family or the love of my life?
Q. i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...
A. 30 January 2008: Ultimately, it is your decision. If your parents are basing it solely on religion then, I agree with the others - ask them to show/give you reasons as to why shouldn't marry this man who treats you well, loves and respects you, because I'm sure they ... (read in full...)
He's still visiting adult dating sites, but says its to boost his confidence, should I give him the heave ho?
Q. Dear Readers The man I am dating (for over 11 months now) - I found out by accident he has a secret email account with emails from other girls - I found out he has about 20 girls on his messenger list and an account on an adults sex site - I ema...
A. 7 January 2008: Yes, sorry to say - I'd end it if I were you. My ex told me about 6 months into our relationship that he'd been "battling" with watching porn well before getting together with me. He promised and told me that it was over though. But 6 weeks later I ... (read in full...)
My bf stays until late at his best friend's house and he ignores me when she is around. I heard her saying she loves him. Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend stays at his best friends house until like 3 a.m. and hes always ignoring me when hes around her. Its like when she around i dont exist. I cant stand him hanging around her 24-7. She one time said i love you baby to him and boy i filled ...
A. 29 December 2007: Have to agree with the others. Talk to him - you're his girlfriend and by what you're saying it's not at all unreasonable for you to be upset and ask him for the truth - it does sound like something is up - you poor thing! Make a time where you tell ... (read in full...)
I've been having THE worst love life these past few months.
Q. I've been having THE worst love life these past few months. I'll explain it a bit first. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and a week later, I started going out with this other guy who I fancied when I was still going out ...
A. 25 December 2007: Hi doggirl2007.
I'm pleased that I could be of some help. How are things going?... (read in full...)
I've been having THE worst love life these past few months.
Q. I've been having THE worst love life these past few months. I'll explain it a bit first. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and a week later, I started going out with this other guy who I fancied when I was still going out ...
A. 4 December 2007: Your ex isn't probably isn't talking to you because you seemingly moved on so quickly - that has quite possibly devastated him. You haven't said why you broke up with him - this reason could have an impact on all of this. If you were truly happy ... (read in full...)
I'm confused. How do I know if he likes me or not?
Q. I'm starting to fall for a guy who've ive met twice though mutual friends (one of whom is cheating on her boyfriend with my ex - thats another thing in itself). I think this guy is charming. I really would like to get more time with him and even get ...
A. 13 November 2007: I don't have his number. I got too chicken the other night to ask for it for fear that he doesn't like me romantically. I asked his friend for it, but he hasn't come back to me with it. I really would like to get to know him though!! Any suggestions ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I know the truth?
Q. About 10 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year, under duress from my parents - so it wasn't my choice. I said i wanted to remain good friends, because prior to dating we were great friends. Within three weeks of our breakup he declares ...
A. 13 November 2007: Thanks anon. I promised myself when broke up that I'd love him in some form for the rest of my life. We'd talked about getting married one day, he even told me he had the day he wanted to ask me to marry him in mind. I loved him and I never believed ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I know the truth?
Q. About 10 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year, under duress from my parents - so it wasn't my choice. I said i wanted to remain good friends, because prior to dating we were great friends. Within three weeks of our breakup he declares ...
A. 13 November 2007: You think I sound jealous. I'm not. I don't love him, but i did care about this friendship with the girl because of her connection with my other friends. My father strongly disliked my ex for a number of reasons, ranging from his personality to his ... (read in full...)
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