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Age difference....just numbers??

Q.   Do you guys think age is just a numbering am extremely attracted to a 38 year old and I am 24...

A.   7 January 2011: not at all.... my bf is 36 and im 24. if its what feels right go for it! age is just a number... (read in full...)

When I'm with him, I'm happy, when apart, I over analyze everything

Q.   I had been dating this guy I met online for 6 months before I decided to call it quits. The thing is, he's constantly calling, emailing and texting...trying his best to win me back. I'm not sure if it's guilt, or true love - but I'm starting to ...

A.   3 January 2011: i agree with shawncaft and tone. If he makes you happy be with him. If not move on. But ultimately you need to think about the long term. Can you see yourself with him in 5 10 or 20 years? Do you see yourself starting a family. You will never find ... (read in full...)

To tell or not to tell

Q.   i'm embarrassed by how much i love you because you may not "love " me as much as i love you. i gush about you...i do. i can't look at your picture without losing my breath. i laugh really hard at your jokes. they're actually really funny to me, but ...

A.   18 December 2010: just give them this. its beautiful... (read in full...)

Having an affair and torn between my love and my husband!

Q.   Hi, I am a married woman(33yrs)and i am having an affair for the last 1 year with a single man (31yrs) My husband( 55yrs) and i have a daughter together(3 yrs) and been together for 8 yrs. My affair started whn my husband wanted to divorce me aft...

A.   10 December 2010: sounds like your marriage has been over for a while. no relationship is truly safe especially new ones but this environment is not good for your daughter. children notice things like this. not the affair but how you and your husband are together. ... (read in full...)

Why do men treat women like this?

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I got treated bad (I know,I know why didn't I leave). I always felt something wasn't right about him. I tried to make him happy, wore my heart on my sleeve and tried even harder even though I couldn't do ...

A.   10 December 2010: i feel you girl. i went through the same bs with my son's dad. took him back time after time hoping he would change but he never did. it gets better. Idk why men are like that sometimes but trust me now that you have been through this you will ... (read in full...)

Stop and stare!

Q.   Please read everything and help me out. Much appreciated! I am a black girl who happens to be attracted to any race of male, black, white, asian, latino, doesn't matter to me. An attractive guy is an attractive guy. I am a college-age girl a...

A.   7 December 2010: maybe they are intimidated by you. lol maybe just try to find a way to let them know for sure you are into them. or just go for it! say something like we should go out sometime or lets get together nothing wrong with a girl making the move. trust ... (read in full...)

Spit or swallow?

Q.   When giving a blow job is it better to spit or swollow? My boyfriend of 4 months has recentley asked me to give him a blow job, but im not sure whether to spit or swollow. I've heard it tastes horrible but if i spit, where do i spit? I really dont ...

A.   4 December 2010: every man tastes different. the trick is to have him near the back of your throat if you are planning on swallowing. most men don't mind spitting but it feels better when you swallow. they love it! ... (read in full...)

Should I come out to my wife?

Q.   Hi I'm 32 yrs old and I've been married to my wife for 6 yrs.being bi sexual isn't something I tell my wife but I did tell her about my attraction to men when we first met and it didn't bother her. I'm now at a point in my life that I feel that ...

A.   4 December 2010: i would start by bringing up that you told her about this attraction before. now you have to be very careful on how you tell her you want to act on this attraction. make sure you make a point that you are not wanting to leave her. as far as wanting ... (read in full...)

Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?

Q.   so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...

A.   17 November 2010: so i really wanted to thank you all for taking the time to answer my questions. I sat down with him tonight and i got my answers. We are exclusive. And now i know he doesn't want to be with anyone else. thanks again... (read in full...)

Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?

Q.   so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...

A.   16 November 2010: ok so something else just popped into my head. does this make him a player? we say we miss eachother and want to be together and we are getting a place so is not labelling it really a bad thing?... (read in full...)

Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?

Q.   so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...

A.   16 November 2010: thank you guys so Much some of your answers really helped now i know i need to at least find out if we are exclusive. i can live with at least that... (read in full...)

Waiting--when is long enough?

Q.   I really like this guy I have known for a few years, but just recently started to hang out with. When we first started texting me, and hanging out with me, he seemed really into me by the things he said and did (we even kissed) Now it seems that ...

A.   13 April 2010: My advice is just ask him how he feels or why he doesnt talk as much now.. Nobody can really tell you if its his 2 jobs or just lost interest... Best of luck, krystal... (read in full...)

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