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Is this a case of cold feet?

Q.   Ok. This is my issue. I am recently divorced (42) and I have been seeing this man for about 4 months (he is 45. We live 3 hours apart. Things were going really well. We were spending almost every weekend together. Then he went cold. Phone calls ...

A.   2 January 2010: well he may call you again and if he does do you think you could not stand to answer? i hope so because if you do that will give him the understanding he can treat you this way. rarely do we ever get the revenge that we want or only when we do it is ... (read in full...)

Christmas Drama...?

Q.   Need some advice! So my bf had his xwife come with the kids and his parents. We talked about this, he lead me to believe she'd be staying with relatives. He did not invite me for Christmas. Now he wants me to meet everyone next week for new ...

A.   27 December 2009: not invited for christmas and you are his girlfriend? i would start there... a problem i would say... (read in full...)

Is my husband using me?

Q.   is my husband using me ?? i been marreid to my husband 7 yeras we been to gether total 9 years we have 3 children to gether and i had 2 grils from previous marrige things were good intil he quit his job with out no reason then i told him to fine ...

A.   26 December 2009: you are right to leave him. it is one thing to let a man disrespect yourself but quite another to let him do it to the children. yelling and calling them names? sound like a pathetic man to me. if you dont protect those children who will? i would ... (read in full...)

If he cheats on her with me, doesn't that mean he has feelings for me?

Q.   I was dating a guy for around 2 years, and we have a 5 mth old baby together. We stopped dating about 6 mths ago when he got together with his current girlfriend. He says he has no emotional feelings for me, but has been cheating on his girlfriend ...

A.   25 December 2009: my guess is that he has no real feeling for either of you, only for himself.. have his cake and eat it too right? you keep letting him treat you that way and he always will. have a relationship for that baby and the rest zero, unless you like self ... (read in full...)

Do you think my wife will cheat again?

Q.   My wife has been cheating on me for so many times and i still forgive her.I know its stupid of me but i don't want our family to be torn apart.shes a good liar and a really selfish bitch.One time,she said shes going to throw the trash and i was ...

A.   25 December 2009: keep your self respect. she obviously has no feelings or regret...why do you forgive her? you dont think you deserve more from her? im sorry but that is bullshit and you know it.you letting her give you those lies just lets her know she can walk all ... (read in full...)

Why do I always feel dead inside?

Q.   I don't know why but I'm in my late 20's and just lack the motivation to do anything. I find everything boring. I've never had a GF and couldn't be bothered, I've never had sex because it feels like too much hard work to bother with. I feel tired ...

A.   25 December 2009: yes you need help. im sorry but it is not normal to feel life is pointless. never had sex because its to much work to bother with? i have to say ive never hear that before. you feel like killing yourself at times? you need to talk to someone. your ... (read in full...)

Do I even have a right to be angry that I was led on even though he never fully committed?

Q.   Ok now where to start? I met this man at a bar (o such a wonderful place to meet them) sarcasm by the way. We were friends for about 3 or 4 monthes. At that time i stupidly suggested we have a friends with benefits relationship, and of course he ...

A.   25 December 2009: thanx for both the comments, good advice especially about me being close to him not him to me...even though he did some good pretending. yay for him ... no contact is best i know but oh the all the dumb women who think they will wait for a change.. ... (read in full...)

We almost had sex and now b/f is very quiet

Q.   me nd my boyfriend have been together for bout 6 months :) anyway, im underage and hes older and we are both virgins so we waitin for my 16th to first "do it" but a couple of days ago..we almost did.. and ever since then hes been really quiet......

A.   25 December 2009: lest see your age says 13-15 so what im wondering is how much older is he than you? maybe he feels bad about the age, and if he is a lot older than you it is wrong. not trying to sound like a mommy here but i would seriously think about having ... (read in full...)

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