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My bf is in the army and I miss him so much. Do army relationships work?

Q.   My boyfriend is in the army, i miss him loads, dont know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two months and he is in the army, i barely see him, only every other weekend, he told me he loves me already i'm not sure to believe this as ...

A.   9 February 2007: i believe they do. my uncle met his wife in the army, and she is now out of it, but he still is in. they have been together for about 20 years and he is always being deployed to different countries for peace keeping. always stay positive and keep in ... (read in full...)

Do YOU believe in love at first sight?

Q.   Do you believe in love at first sight? What do you think of a 15 year old dating a 23 year old? Is it wrong? Let me know! Thanks...

A.   9 February 2007: you are too young to be with someone who is 23. i'm sure it is just lust and that you will met someone closer to your age. i'm 23 and i know there are no common grounds with someone who is younger that 19. you can't go to the places he can. be ... (read in full...)

I want to get married without all the legalities. How do I do this?

Q.   i love my boyfriend very much and we were thinking about marraige but we want an unofficial wedding that doesn't entail all the legal views. just in case anything ever happens we don't want the hassle of divorce. Does anyone know of any way we can ...

A.   8 February 2007: well, you can always have a friend or family member (someone who is not a justice of the preist) "marry you" and you can both exchange rings. if you wanted, you can even make up a faux marriage certificate. going as far as paying to get married will ... (read in full...)

My husband took everything we had - trust, love, and ruined it by sleeping with a Thai bar girl...

Q.   I had a very happy marriage until about three months ago. My husband went on a business trip to Thailand and visited a go-go bar where he had protected sex with a bar girl. He got back and confessed the very same night but said he only had oral sex ...

A.   8 February 2007: have you gone to counselling together? this may help. he knew he made a mistake and that's why he told you part of it when he returned. if counselling doesn't work, then you need to leave the marriage. you and your husband will become enemys if you ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl so why do I feel like this?

Q.   hey people need some help,ive just got my first gf bin with her for 2months,it is a long distance relationship, shes a really decent girl, i have wanted to get a gf for a long time, and now i have found one i feel that i should be more committed, ...

A.   8 February 2007: i was in a long distance relationship and there is no way to make it more committed with out making it a 'local' relationship. aside from you moving there or her moving there you can't commit more. just think, if you are not acting on your thoughts, ... (read in full...)

Are condoms still effective in water?

Q.   I was just wondering if it was possible to be able to use condoms in water and to still be effective? could anyone help please? Thanks a lot...

A.   7 February 2007: having sex in water isn't a good idea in the first place; with or with out protection. the water can be forced up through the tubes and into the abdomin. this can cause endometriosis and it is very painful for a woman.... (read in full...)

Please help me to heal after my break up

Q.   My affair of a year has just ended. I knew it wouldnt last forever since im married and had no plans to leave my husband but I also fell for this guy and hard. We have had such a connection on a deeper level and now he is moving on to try and star...

A.   7 February 2007: ask your self this: can your husband give you what you are needing? there is a reason why you had the affair. something was lacking in your marriage and you managed to find it in the other guy. if your husband cant provide what is lacking then why ... (read in full...)

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