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Im fun and small :)

I have been through my fair few ups and downs even though i am only young

Should I ask if he wants to come next week before I go back or leave him to get in contact.

Q.   hello everyone I have a small problem.. well ive been abroad for the last 3 years and every time i come over to the uk on holiday i meet my ex boyfriend, we kiss cuddle etc and i feel so excited and get the old butterflies back... anyway ive mess...

A.   30 June 2009: thank you i just hate the thought of rejection haha, but i think i might ask like you said nothing lost if not! thank you... (read in full...)

I cant stand this insecurity of not knowing what she wants!

Q.   I had this relationship with a girl for almost a year. We broke up last december, a very painful brake up. 2 months ago she txt's me she misses me and want to start hanging out again. As i still loved her very much, I agreed on meeting up. We s...

A.   26 May 2008: Chin up break ups are very hard. big hugs to you. my advice would be leave her to make her own decision give her some space. try going out with your friends etc and have a good time this will keep your mind off the whole situation. As... (read in full...)

I'm feel like I am living in a lie because I want to be with some one else

Q.   I am very troubled. Everyday I pretend to be happy, I feel like I am living a lie. I've been with this man for 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I was 16 when I had my first child and 19 when I had my second. We only knew e/o for 3 months and ...

A.   23 May 2008: Think about yourself here, not your financial postition is there anyone in the family you could just stay at till you got on your feet? or a friend? there are lots of parents who are in the same situation as you and its sad never be in a situati... (read in full...)

First love feelings came back with his email... is this normal?

Q.   Well i have a little problem. You know that first love you have when your younger and never forget well mine was when i was 15-16 we finished because he moved somewhere else with his parents and decided it wouldnt work... after we split...

A.   23 May 2008: Thank you for your fast replies you have made me think about 2 things. 1 which is what happens next with my current does it happen again which im not going to let happen. Also i would need to speak to my ex alot more before even thinking of meet... (read in full...)

He doesn't answer my messages... should I dump him?

Q.   i havent seen my boyfriend in a week.he doesnt answer calls or texts or get bk to me when he says he will.is he cheating and should i get rid off him ?...

A.   23 May 2008: hello, hes not necissarly cheating but maybe busy? there isnt an excuse for this sort of behaviour especially if he said he would ring but there maybe a valid excuse. you need to sit and talk not necissarly finish him. hope this helps a lit... (read in full...)

I would love to have another try, but every time he has embarrassed me by dumping me one day later!

Q.   Basically, i really like this guy and have had a very on off relasionship with him. we have "gone out" a few times but it has only ever lasted a day or two befor he dumps me. Whenever that happens before we "go out" we are flirting loads and both...

A.   22 May 2008: hello sorry your feeling so let down the guy you are describing sounds very immature and seems he just wants fun if you know what i mean. you are young too i believe you fall in love at any age but please be carefull, people can be very nesty i... (read in full...)

Please help me find out where I can get an exotic pet.

Q.   I know that this is really out of the blue but it's really anoying me. I really want an Exotic pet and have searched the web for a good site with different types of pets (birds, fish, reptiles, etc...) with good pictures and information for each of t...

A.   22 May 2008: maybe try local newspapers?... (read in full...)

How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?

Q.   I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...

A.   22 May 2008: no it doesnt make a difference and as stated before by other aunts and uncles! :) they may grow as you develop more with age confidence is the key and just to have fun!... (read in full...)

Are women not attracted to shorter men?

Q.   i have heard a lot of times that women naturally are not attracted to shorter men than them or they tend to look down on them maybe with disrespect. how true is this, ladies?...

A.   22 May 2008: definately not true. women look for different things in men every woman likes different things, like every man likes different aspects of a woman. i have dated a smaller guy before . plus its what inside that counts good luck... (read in full...)

Is he too shy or doesn't he like me?

Q.   Well there is a guy i would like to get to know and be friends with we text alot. But whenever i ask him if he wants to meet he doesnt seem to want to! Im not sure if its just because he doesnt like me or if hes too shy? So what can i do?...

A.   22 May 2008: i agree with the above answer i think guys dont like the whole forward should we meet up question but if its brought up as a different sort of question like do you want to go 'bowling' (maybe not that it was an example!) he might say yes :) g... (read in full...)

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