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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i havent seen my boyfriend in a week.he doesnt answer calls or texts or get bk to me when he says he will.is he cheating and should i get rid off him ?
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reader, Shingi  +, writes (1 October 2008):
Know what .. men and women are made differently. When we women are getting more and more involved in a relationship, the men probably have enough to handle and need to take a break. I would recommend you read this- http://iknowithurts.blogspot.com/2008/04/my-boyfriend-doesnt-answer-my-calls.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Oh tell him to buggar off, live is too short, and what does he think you are, a bloody door mat. Get rid and get someone who actually cares and wants to answer your calls.
take care
xx
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reader, kenny +, writes (23 May 2008):
 I would give him another week, and if you still do not get any response in this time span then just leave it and walk away. Ok so he may be busy but at the end of the day how long does it take out of a hectic schedule to prepare a quick text or email or call, no time atal. Give him one more week then send a final text or call saying you have had enough and that you don't want to see him anymore.
All the best x
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (23 May 2008):
 It all depends on you. Some people can do these types of relationships, some cannot. I would not be able to go a week without hearing a word from my boyfriend. There is being busy but come on... not even 15 minutes to talk in a whole week...? I don't believe that for a second and never will. I don't know that he is cheating. Some of us need more attention from our partners where others can have a lot of space. The fact that he just doesn't answer or bother to call back when you call tells me you need to let this one go, as it is obviously bothering you. Maybe ask him what's up, if he were to answer his phone... The guy I dated did this as well and I was able to handle it for about 2 weeks. So good luck. And do what you want to do and what you feel is right for you. If you can deal with talking once a week then do so.
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reader, Aragorn +, writes (23 May 2008):
From looking at what you've said you haven't seen your boyfriend in a week if you said in a month or two or even three weeks I would ask questions but not in a week
he doesn't have to text you and if you bombard him with texts he won't answer them. Just take things slowly, i'm guessing you don't spend time apart. This is no reason to dump him. Relationships are tough and it takes work to make them work.
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reader, kirsty_123us +, writes (23 May 2008):
hello,
hes not necissarly cheating but maybe busy?
there isnt an excuse for this sort of behaviour especially if he said he would ring but there maybe a valid excuse.
you need to sit and talk not necissarly finish him.
hope this helps a little
:)
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