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Did I give his ego too much of a boost?

Q.   Was this a bad move? I don't think so..but curious about what others think. Ok, so I went to a family wedding without my boyfriend. He had a prior engagement. Anyways, I thought of putting on some sexy lingerie for when I saw him the next day. He...

A.   16 June 2009: I think you made him really happy.lol... (read in full...)

Follow my head? Or follow my heart?

Q.   myself and partner have recently split up due to his paranoia,behaviour and attitude towards me,i went out saturday night and got talking to this guy he was very nice a real gentleman even sang to me which suprised me i was really flattered.he gave ...

A.   28 May 2009: U should call this guy up. I mean you have got to eat. right? Go out and have fun. Just because you go out for dinner doesn't mean you have to marry the guy. No man is worth waiting on! So don't wait on your ex that's exactly what he wants you do ... (read in full...)

Do I break it off with him, and follow my heart?

Q.   Hi. Well rhe story is my boyfriend who has on occasion because of drink and drug problems hit me and been very aggressive. Due to my loyalty towards him as he was a friend and I helped him of off heroin, I can't seem to leave him to self destruct. ...

A.   1 December 2008: Sounds Like we are having the same problem right now. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 yrs. He has had a drug problem for almost 3yrs. He went to the out-patient rehab. It worked for a little while! Then he started hanging out with ... (read in full...)

Help wanted. I need your ideas to spice things up!

Q.   dear cupid How can I make mine and my bf's sex life more exciting? I've been with him for 2 months now and I don't really know how to do things to make him really excited. Please help!!!...

A.   13 August 2006: One thing you could do is, nibble on his ear, whisper in his ear something sexy. Anything would work I mean come on its a guy..Floreplay is the best thing to do. Like kissing on his stomach, his neck. Anything like that. But when he's actually ... (read in full...)

Help wanted. I need your ideas to spice things up!

Q.   dear cupid How can I make mine and my bf's sex life more exciting? I've been with him for 2 months now and I don't really know how to do things to make him really excited. Please help!!!...

A.   13 August 2006: One thing you could do is, nibble on his ear, whisper in his ear something sexy. Anything would work I mean come on its a guy..Floreplay is the best thing to do. Like kissing on his stomach, his neck. Anything like that. But when he's actually ... (read in full...)

No "I love you", even after 9 months. Is he scared?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months now. I think I love him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Why hasn't he said I love you yet? Does he expect me to say it first or is he scared? He was previously in a long term rel...

A.   4 November 2005: When the time comes I think he will tell you if he loves you. I f he doesn't tell you then maybe the time isn't right for him or maybe he doesn't fell the same way about you. Tell him how you feel and see what he says.Good Luck... (read in full...)

A guy is interested in me, but I'm really shy and don't know if I should go out with him...

Q.   I'm 15 and I've got a dating problem. I like this guy who says he loves me, and we've already dated back in 7th grade. He writes me awesome love letters and gives me gifts. I like him and really want to go back out with him, but now I'm really shy. ...

A.   28 July 2005: you should give the boy a chance when you find "the one" you'll know it you'll be able to say anything around him and you want feel crazy for saying it.if your still shy around him act like he's jusy one of your really good friends.... (read in full...)

Months go by without me seeing my ex... then when I do, all the old feelings come back!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years now (living together for one year) and we've been going through some hard times. There was this guy I was dating for about a month before I started with my current boyfriend, and there wa...

A.   24 June 2005: No this is not unusual as a matter of fact I'm going through the same thing right now. You're probably in love or just have really strong feelings for him. See which one you like the best and that treats you the best,and just follow your heart. It ... (read in full...)

We broke up and I'd like to get back together. Should I wait for him to make the move?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend haven't seen each other in a few weeks. We had an argument but I want to make up. He told me to back off because he doesn't trust many people and finds it hard to get close because of his insecurity. Should I ring him or wait...

A.   10 June 2005: If you ring him it will make him think that your weak,show him that you can live with or without him that will bother him the most.and if its been over a month when he rings tell him that you can't talk to him.tell him you love him but you don't ... (read in full...)

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