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I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

Q.   My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...

A.   21 October 2008: I wouldn't end the relationship only based on what you wrote. There are some people who don't know how to converse over the internet or telephone. A lot of people don't realize how easy it is to give the wrong impression when writing to people ... (read in full...)

We've been apart six months now, we aren't 'commited' but he's all I think about. He seems to be moving on with his life, should I do the same?

Q.   I met this guy at work and initially we connected on a level i've never experienced. We met at work as we both work away from home in our kind of business, I fell in Love with him ... trouble is he had to leave and go back to the uk (we were in ...

A.   14 October 2008: You should talk to him and see how he feels about your relationship. If he feels differently towards you and is not feeling that spark anymore then I would definitely end things and move on. Long distance relationships are so difficult but if both ... (read in full...)

Why didn't I feel myself cum?

Q.   is it bad that as a male i didnt feel myself cum.? i felt it a little bit, but the sensation isnt like it usually is? why couldnt i feel it?...

A.   14 October 2008: So is there some sensation there when you cum? Sometimes when you're having sex, it's understandable depending on how intense your sex session was that you might not feel yourself cum. It's just like how guys can't feel their pre-cum come out. If ... (read in full...)

I thought it was my 'dream job', but since starting it my life has felt so empty. I feel alone and worthless and it is getting hard to put on a fake smile - what should I do?

Q.   I thought i had it all the perfect friends the perfect man and the perfect job .... i worked all my life to get the job i have now and at the end of the day I'm so miserable! my job took me away from home so i grew distant with my friends and my ...

A.   14 October 2008: I don't think you're going through a bad spell. I think you're making a smart decision to stay away from the coworkers who are doing drugs. Try to get out and meet with other people who have similar interests as you...if possible. I understand that ... (read in full...)

I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?

Q.   so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...

A.   14 October 2008: I want to commend you for not being the flirty girl that kisses all the boys. A guy will respect you more for NOT being that girl because boys tend to categorize those girls as "teases" or the "easy" girls. I'm glad that you have enough integrity ... (read in full...)

What do you guys think, is he falling for me? Is this love?

Q.   im 22 almost 23 the guy im seeing is 24. Well im wondering if he is falling for me by this statement: "I dont know, this whole thing is scaring me i just know that when i kiss you everything feels right" Both of us have been in really bad relat...

A.   14 October 2008: It sounds like he scared to fall in love and scared to commit. Going off of what you said, it sounds like he definitely has feelings for you but there's doubt there. It sounds like he's unsure about starting a serious relationship with you. Have you ... (read in full...)

Does he have feelings for me, or am I just fooling myself?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for 8 months. He's going to work 2 hours away in another town for 3 months. I expressed my disappointment to him that I won't see him very much. He said that it was only 2 hours away and that he would come home on weekends. ...

A.   14 October 2008: Thank you for your advice!! I appreciate it!... (read in full...)

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