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writes: im 22 almost 23 the guy im seeing is 24.Well im wondering if he is falling for me by this statement: "I dont know, this whole thing is scaring me i just know that when i kiss you everything feels right"Both of us have been in really bad relationships. his last real relationship was about 4 years ago. Hes dated here and there but thats it.He is the first to ever give me my first "natural" kiss. We were sitting on my porch cuddled up and he softly turned my head towards him and kissed me. It lasted awhile. I got butterflies instantly. I swear my whole body was screaming this is love. Ive never had that happen before. As crazy as it seems my inner voice said "i love you" when we were kissing...... I know i know its crazy right?!After awhile of kissing he had to walk away from me for a few mins he kept saying something along the lines about feelings. He never actually said what kind of feelings just that it had to do with feelings and he couldnt finish with anything he was saying along them lines and finishing it off with i dont know..... Its like he didnt know how to describe what he was trying to say. Hes been smiling ever since tho. This happend on saturday.What do you guys think?!
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reader, kaui57 +, writes (14 October 2008):
It sounds like he scared to fall in love and scared to commit. Going off of what you said, it sounds like he definitely has feelings for you but there's doubt there. It sounds like he's unsure about starting a serious relationship with you. Have you talked about this with him and if he does want to be with you? Ask his what he's afraid of and what his concerns are for having feelings for you? It doesn't make sense. Good luck!
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reader, SarahOwen +, writes (14 October 2008):
I'm afraid the only advice I can give you is to take things sow - particularly if you've both had bad relationships in the past. But enjoy this bit - because nothing feels as wonderful as falling for someone...
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