How can he treat me like this after three years?
Q. Sorry to bother everyone again. I was dating a guy for over 3 years and we broke up. Recently, we have just been like seeing each other to see how things go. But when he is drunk, he turns ugly, and speaks to me like crap! I fell out with him, but ...
A. 23 June 2008: Thanks for your help with this one guys. I really do appreciate it. Its been hard trying not to get in contact with him, but im staying strong. Hopefully ill find someone right when the time is right. Thanks again. x... (read in full...)
I'm trying so hard to get over him and move on but I need my things back!-Help
Q. My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He said he needed to take care of some things and I should keep in mind that he has to do what he has to do. Don't really know what that means cos' if he was to break up, he should have said so and that he ...
A. 27 May 2008: If i was you, i would listen to him. You should know that you can have limits now and that your in control and he isnt. Just listen to what he has to say, then you have your say. Dont let his feelings get to you and try and make that as closure for ... (read in full...)
What can I do? My dad is very overprotective!
Q. Hi, I like this lad..but my dad is very protective over me. When i split up with my ex boyfriend, i wanted another lad to come round just a few days later (i was upset) - obviously, the answer was "no, wait a while" [dad]. so i've waited.. 6 ...
A. 26 May 2008: Your dad is worried that you are going to get hurt again and be upset. He doesnt want lads using you, which is turning him to be a bit over protective. My suggestion would be to go out for a few drinks with this lad. Get him to come to your door and ... (read in full...)
I'm trying so hard to get over him and move on but I need my things back!-Help
Q. My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He said he needed to take care of some things and I should keep in mind that he has to do what he has to do. Don't really know what that means cos' if he was to break up, he should have said so and that he ...
A. 26 May 2008: I would try to move on. Your ex is obviously confused about what he wants and doesnt want to let you go in case no one else is there for him.
In regards to your things at his, i would advise you to pick them up or get someone else to do it. The ... (read in full...)
We split up but can't seem to leave each other alone!
Q. I am in yet another dilemma. me and my bf split about a week ago now. I went over to his last night for the swapping back of personal items, as you do. However, when i got there we were talking for a while then we ended up sleeping with ea...
A. 23 May 2008: But why is he asking me out like to meals and things if we are only friends and have only just split up? I did enjoy it so, i am not sure if it was a mistake. I know people have sex with their exs, but when does it stop?? I dont know if once it ... (read in full...)
My BF has anxiety and depression... how do I handle this?
Q. Basically my boyfriend is suffering from anxiety and depression, I have been with him for nearly two years now and i love him, But things are starting to get to me. He blames all our relationship problems on me saying im the moody one, and i never ...
A. 23 May 2008: I was in the exactly same position as you. Everything you mention was the exact case to mine and my ex bf. I know its a very hard thing to cope with. I split up with my bf 2 days ago and i find now that if i try talking to him he listen more.
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I've never kissed. So, just in case I get lucky some day...
Q. hi everyone, how are ya? hope your well, just as a note, this is my first question on this website.. to be completely honest, its the first time i'm asking a question to complete strangers lol. umm.. i'll get started i guess. i'm an 18 year ...
A. 21 May 2008: No i dont think its that big of an issue. You should do things as and when you are ready to do them. Most people rush into things like this and dont remember who is was with or what happened.
My tips for when you do get that lucky kiss is make ... (read in full...)
I let the love of my life slip through my hands.
Q. I regret not moving out to South Africa to be with my girlfriend. I dithered so much that she eventually got fed up of waiting for me and met someone else. I'm totally devastated. I pray that she will forgive me and take me back as now I would sell ...
A. 21 May 2008: There is no point living i fear of the mistakes you have made. There is no garantee that you would have stopped together once out there. I know it seems hard, but the best thing to do is hold your head up high and move on.
Your ex gf should k... (read in full...)
All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...
A. 20 May 2008: Thank you so much for your respond. Its nice to know that you can get through this and come out more positive. Me and my bf have decided to call it a day. We are going to try and stop friends and see where it goes. Maybe when we have both had a ... (read in full...)
All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...
A. 16 May 2008: Im glad to know that your bf helped you through it and now you are better. He does take his medication and is opening up to the councilor, but i never think he wants to be with me as i am never doing anything right. I know it is his depression and i ... (read in full...)
All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...
A. 15 May 2008: There are other things affecting his depression, but he feels i will not understand. He feels threatened by my male friends and feels i tell them things about him, but im not that sort of person.We argue about silly things, that are just pointless. ... (read in full...)
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