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I still talk to my ex but am with new guy and don't feel comfortable with the new guy. Whom do I chose?

Q.   So I am dating this guy, we have been seeing each other for a little over a month. Him and I started dating after 3 weeks or so of me breaking up with my ex of a year and a half. Now after a month of not talking to him my ex and I are starting to ...

A.   21 November 2011: I think you are still hung up on your ex anyway Chad does not stand a chance. Being co dependent is what you do in relationships. Sit down on your own take a few days out from either guy and think when your head is clear... (read in full...)

Is my girlfriend cheating on me ?

Q.   So recently my girlfriend received a text message from an unsaved number. I told her to respond to it and she did it very hesitantly. She responded who is this. I then asked her to turn on her on sound because i was suspicious. So we were on the bed ...

A.   21 November 2011: I would keep an eye out also. I had a Partner who did similar things and I put myself through hell watching them. If you get a chance I know itsawful but misplace her phone if she goes mad you know shes hiding something sorry to give you such ... (read in full...)

I ended it with my husband because he was awful to my son. Now he wants to work on the problems. Should I give him a chance?

Q.   Ok, I did it. I ended my relationship. My second husband’s relationship with my little boy was awful. My little boy is 9 years old and he needs anxiety counselling because of all the chaos in his life. I have to say, although I love my Husband, it ...

A.   7 April 2011: Thank you all for your honest replies I am not considering taking him back my little boy is to precious I was scared thats all needed reassurance the question title was not my choice I would not take him back we all just get scared after makin a big ... (read in full...)

I feel my partner is hiding something from me...

Q.   My partner and i have had many breaks but feel he is hiding something from me, last yr we had a split for a few months and he went on fb (which he never does usually) someone told me that they had seen other females on his friends list and told me ...

A.   25 March 2011: You dont trust him I dont trust my Partner if its not this it will prob be something else once the trust is gone i dont think you can get it back save yourself the misery i am still going through ... (read in full...)

Do I end things with my husband? My son is starting to show the damage

Q.   Hi I have bogged before my Husband I have been together nearly three years. At the start he cheated on me was tight with money would not bother with my children as he dis not see his. My 9 year old Son saw me cry whilst pregnant and worried terribly ...

A.   30 January 2011: Hi Sorry its my typing. I have two kids from my previous marriage now age 9 and 6 they live with me Mon Thurs Friday and sat then with my ex the other days with whom I have a good relationship. He has three kids from previous relationships one he ... (read in full...)

Confusion over the kids!

Q.   Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 an...

A.   10 May 2010: Hi I again wanted advice on my situation stupid as it may seem. I was trying to get my Husband to change in my last post. The arguments got worse as I stood up for my children and his inability to interact with them. I came home one day and he had ... (read in full...)

Confusion over the kids!

Q.   Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 an...

A.   6 January 2010: Thank you for your replies I do value your opinions and i know what to do im ny heart of hearts. The situation will not change he went to his ex house to give on of his children a birthday present when he got there he said the children were not ... (read in full...)

My husband is moody, abusive, controlling and hates my daughter! What can I do?

Q.   hi, i need advice, my husband of 1 1/2 yrs but been together for 3 1/2 yrs is a control freak,moody,and a very quick nasty temper(doesn't hit all verbal) when we meet he knew i had a teenage daughter which he got along with, now he hates her and ...

A.   5 January 2010: I am in the same situation i am married to my second Husband and have a child from that marriage who is four months old i have a five and seven year old from my previous relationship who my Husband makes it clear he detests, I want to get the ... (read in full...)

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