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There are far too many red flags. Is this guy worth it?

Q.   I’ve been seeing my partner 6 months. I’ve previously been in a business relationships which affected me and my daughter who is 16 so I am cautious. Until I met my partner I was happy with my kids on my own but on times would like company. Generally ...

A.   4 September 2021: Thank you for answering. It’s not my daughter that sleep on the couch she has her bedroom. He has two daughters and they sleep on the couch at my house (despite me saying it’s not the best for them) at my house. He has his own house that he talked ... (read in full...)

I have my ex husband's last name. My current boyfriend wants me to change back to my maiden name. Should I?

Q.   My boyfriend does not like that I have kept the surname of my ex husband. It is just easier as my child's last name would be the same as mine. My boyfriend said it does not matter if my child's last name is different from his mother. I ...

A.   15 April 2017: I have the same issue I'm married for a second time I have kept my first husband surname he has no contact with my child to protect my child when I travel so no awkward questions are asked and my ex permission is asked for me to leave the country. ... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   13 January 2017: Thank you. I have put a deposit on a house and we will leave. I couldn't have done it without you xx... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   12 January 2017: Thanks for all your replies. Our situation hasn't resolved. My children are 15 12 and 8. My husband disliked my daughter initially because she was good at school and achieves he said he compared her to his son who is the same age and more immature. ... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   13 October 2016: This was my situation [add to watch list] Help!! My partner and I live with our 5 kids. Two from his previous relationship three from mine. He's very bias towards his kids and I'm scared its damaging my kids. Two of my kids spend half the week wi... (read in full...)

Our families are not blending. Is it time to move on?

Q.   Help!! My partner and I live with our 5 kids. Two from his previous relationship three from mine. He's very bias towards his kids and I'm scared its damaging my kids. Two of my kids spend half the week with their dad and I was on my own with the ...

A.   3 September 2016: Thanks for all your advice. I had a chat with him and his parents last sat I was totally honest about everything and the way I feel he said he realised and knew it needed to change. Monday the same issues came up again jealousy as I played with my ... (read in full...)

Dating a month. So why is he saying he's afraid of being criticized by his friends if he loads a picture of me?

Q.   He said it was because he was afraid of being critized with his friends. But i'm a pretty girl, and the friends he does upload (which are girls look similar to me. So I don't understand what the real problem is. We have been dating for a month, ...

A.   22 July 2014: I would stop asking don't force something because if you have to do that it's not worth it. You need to give it time but see if he starts showing you as a couple in public give it a bit of time but song end up wasting yours xx... (read in full...)

She recently broke up with her Bf, so is it too early to as her out?

Q.   Hi, bit of a lengthy question here. About 2 years ago at college I ended up getting paired with this girl for a school project and ended up liking her, but at the time, she had a boyfriend so obviously I couldn't do anything about my feelings for ...

A.   22 July 2014: If I were you I would have as much contact as I could with her in the summer break. Try not to discuss her ex at all don't put yourself in the position of an agony aunt. If you get the chance do fun things together and it may progress. No pressure ... (read in full...)

Is he still interested in me?

Q.   Do you think he is still interested in me? So on Friday night i met up with a guy friend i haven't seen in years. We went to highschool together and recently started talking. Before we met up, we had been texting each other everyday through...

A.   22 April 2013: Its really tough when you don't know whether a persons interested in you or not. Maybe he is shy. I don't think you ruined your chances by what you did it felt right at the time and if that puts him off you are better without him. Ignore the other ... (read in full...)

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