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I hope i can help not only because i am a psychologist & coach but also because i have been through a lot and hope to make the way a little easier for others

How do I live out the rest of my life alone by my own doing?

Q.   I have made a lot of mistakes in my life but this one's the worse. How do I live out the rest of my life alone by my own doing? She was the love of my life. If only she would give me one more chance I wouldn't tell her I would show her. I would ...

A.   15 January 2011: Could you maybe tell us a little of what went wrong? Have you told her how you feel? It is hard to answer. Though you pain is obvious there is not much more to go on.... (read in full...)

Is my BF finally learning that he cant take me for granted anymore?

Q.   Hi all, just a quick question - in short my bf ( now more or less ex) took me for granted for a long time, and I allowed him too, but finally I got the strength , and backed right off, and stopped calling him, and showing him I cared as much.It ...

A.   15 January 2011: Course he still likes you or he would not contact you. Sometimes people only really do relaise what they have once they see that they may lose it. Use yur new strength to buld a relationship with him that is more equal.... (read in full...)

I have no idea what he wants or what he's thinking.

Q.   Usually I'm very good at reading guys and know what they want. But with this guy, I have no idea what he wants or what he's thinking. I get the impression that he does like me on some level, but then he does things that make me think the complete ...

A.   15 January 2011: If he is contacting you then there must be some interest. Maybe he is not sure about his own feelings or yours. Have you tried contacting him - maybe just to ask him something or for a short chat. Show him that you are interested in getting to know ... (read in full...)

Shall I break my friendship with my male friend cause my husband doen't feel comfortable?

Q.   Normally I'm comfortble with male friends than women. My husband had no problem with that. I love my husband and everything is just great in the marriage. I have two new male friends recentelly. I really enjoy talking to them. I almost meet at least ...

A.   15 January 2011: Ask yourself what these two friendships bring you that make them so important. If you can answer truthfully that you only want a platonic friendship then explain this to your husband. How would you feel if your husband had two women friends he spent ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to make of his behaviour!

Q.   The guy I'm seeing has also requested me a friend on facebook, I accepted. I get on kinda of late at night, he has made comments about me trying to meet someone else, told him no. I did the 21 question thing and sent it to him, he took it down off ...

A.   15 January 2011: I know this may not be easy but you really are going to have to ask him. Maybe he is taking you a little for granted andthough he still wants you is just not putting as much effort in as he was at the beginning... (read in full...)

Is he bored of our relationship?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months, but recently I feel like he can't really be bothered to see me any more. I always feel second best, and it's always me starting the conversation or making plans. Whenever he (rarely) ...

A.   9 January 2011: Maybe you should ask him how he sees the relationship. Gentley tell him how you feel - find a few compromises. If he is not willing to change his behaviour consider that you really deserve better.... (read in full...)

Am I addicted to him or is it me who is wrong?

Q.   Sorry, but this is a long rant because I am exasperated by my relationship. To put it into context, I was brought up in an abusive family situation which involved, along with many other negatives, my mother being extremely emotionally neglectful ...

A.   9 January 2011: Please start thinking about yourself and now. At the end of the day the only person responsible for how you deal with your life is you. Life has not been easy for you and so you are far more likely to put up with too much because you believe you do ... (read in full...)

Do these signs seem like he is in love with me?

Q.   Does it mean a man loves you if he tells you the following things: You give me butterflies, you take my breath away, you make my heart beat faster, you are beautiful, hot, sexy and make my life better and that he thinks about me constantly. He also ...

A.   9 January 2011: how ever difficult it is be patient. the guy obviously really likes you and he no doubt needs a little time. At least he is not one of those people that says " I love" and does not mean it. ... (read in full...)

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