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female
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36-40,
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writes:Usually I'm very good at reading guys and know what they want. But with this guy, I have no idea what he wants or what he's thinking. I get the impression that he does like me on some level, but then he does things that make me think the complete opposite. He canceled on me twice in a row at the last minute. Which made me really mad because while his reasons sounded real, they were things he could have easily put off if he wanted to...which shows that I'm not that important to him. But that's fine, we only went out once before that. But then he keeps talking to me, initiating the calls. I just don't understand why he would keep in touch, yet not want to go out. But then he asked me out yet again and I said maybe. I just so confused about him. I'm about 95% sure he's not dating anyone else. My head is telling me to refuse him, forget about him and move on. But then another part of me wants to see him again if for nothing else, then trying to figure him out. What do you guys think?
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reader, kate70  +, writes (15 January 2011):
If he is contacting you then there must be some interest. Maybe he is not sure about his own feelings or yours. Have you tried contacting him - maybe just to ask him something or for a short chat. Show him that you are interested in getting to know him better and maybe this will give him the push in your direction that he needs. In my experience and from the guys I know they only contact people if they want to start or maintain some sort of relationship. Hope things turn out well.
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