Weird bumps on my private parts. What's going on?
Q. I have these bumps on my private part.i have never had sex,so I couldn't have an STD.What's going on?...
A. 2 June 2008: Could be HPV. It's a very common virus and very easy to contract, but you should definitely have it checked out because some forms can lead to cervical cancer. Although you don't have to have sex to get it, you have to have pretty intimate contact ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't like gay or bi people!
Q. One of my best friends is a great friend, but she discriminates against gay and bi people. Our other friend says she might be bi and when my best friend found out,she says, "Eww,that's nasty. Let's not hang around her". Best friend knows, but still ...
A. 2 June 2008: Unfortunately everyone is entitled to their own opinions. My recommendation is to try to enlighten your misguided friend, you don't need to stop hanging out with her. But if she says something offensive, you should say so if you disagree. ... (read in full...)
This girl wants me to come over, is that slutty?
Q. I just recently started talking to this girl, we havnt hung out yet but she has already asked me to come over to her house, is that somewhat of a slutty thing to do? I really would like her to be my GF but it seems shes looking just for sex. Btw im ...
A. 2 June 2008: That depends. Is she inviting you over for sex or just to hang out? If you want to take it slow, without saying so, just invite her out somewhere public. See how interested in you she is. Take her out a couple times. If she keeps going out with ... (read in full...)
Snooped again, and found flirty messages yet again! Is he cheating?
Q. Several months ago I snooped in my boyfriend's cellphone and found text messages to some girl about wanting to kiss her as well as flirty responses from her. I confronted him and he said it was a joke and got mad at me for snooping. Just recently ...
A. 2 June 2008: Thanks for all your responses so far. Your telling me what I didn't want to hear, but needed too. Twist of Fate- things are a little more complex than him just being cute. We've been together for a year and a half. We live together. Our ... (read in full...)
I threw my vibrator in the bin and now I can't pleasure myself properly, any suggestions?
Q. hia just a quickish question, im in a great 1 year relationship and we are a very sexual couple. but when i am not with him, i still become kinky and i cant pleasure myself no matter what. i did have a vibe but i threw that in the bin when i moved ...
A. 30 May 2007: Get a new one! A girl can't have too many! I highly recommend www.funfactory.de ... (read in full...)
Special evening planned for my bf..just need some lingerie..any good online lingerie shops out there?
Q. My boyfriend comes back in three weeks from a five month trip. I really want his first night back to be special and memorable. Can anyone recommend any online lingerie shops? There are a million on the net and I don't want to end up with some...
A. 30 May 2007: Thanks for the chocolate body paint idea! Have you used it? Is it messy? I've always heard that whipped cream is more off a mess than its worth.
I think I'll steer clear of the rose petals, not quite our style. And Victoria's Secret has always b... (read in full...)
My bf is on a long trip, how do I keep my urges curbed without him?
Q. My boyfriend is away on a trip and it's been three months. I have never gone this long without sex before and it is totally getting to me. I'm totally irritable and depressed. I wouldn't dream of cheating on him, and masturbation is just not working ...
A. 9 May 2007: We are very much in contact. We email every day and talk on the phone when we can. Emotionally we are very well connected. I can't wait for him to return because of our own trips we have planned. Our relationship is definitely not ALL sexual, but ... (read in full...)
My bf is on a long trip, how do I keep my urges curbed without him?
Q. My boyfriend is away on a trip and it's been three months. I have never gone this long without sex before and it is totally getting to me. I'm totally irritable and depressed. I wouldn't dream of cheating on him, and masturbation is just not working ...
A. 9 May 2007: I have plenty of toys. He even gave me more before he left. They worked in the past just fine, but now I just get bored with them. ... (read in full...)
I want sex constantly and have only gone without sex for two months the longest. What do I do?
Q. I am a 18 year old girl who keeps on getting in and out of relationships, when i am in the relationship i think that everything is great for a week maybe two and then i get BORED i dont know why this happens. I have been cheated on lots of times by ...
A. 8 May 2007: I agree with the others in that your sex drive is 100% normal. And believe me, getting a vibrator is well worth it. Every girl should have one, relationship or not.
I completely understand what you mean by getting bored with men after a week. ... (read in full...)
Do you think anything more will come out of this friendship I have with him?
Q. Basically I have fallen for a guy and well he says he likes me an we've spent time together, call and text each other every day without fail etc Anyway to the point, whenever i bring up the subject of us actually getting together properly he just ...
A. 8 May 2007: my boyfriend that i am with now was in a six year relationship before me. the last two years of it were hell, he said. they broke up six months before we started dating. and even then, he was just recovering. we were together for a month before he ... (read in full...)
I fear I will never get over HIS ex...
Q. There seem to be a lot of women who share this problem: the EX. I met my boyfriend and the relationship became intense right away and we completely fell in love with each other within a month. But soon after he left for a trip for several months. We ...
A. 7 May 2007: Papillon, thanks for writing! It does feel good to know there are others out there that have the same problem. I think it is best to focus on the bright future, one that it looks like both of us have. I think over time I will gain the confidence. I ... (read in full...)
Do you think anything more will come out of this friendship I have with him?
Q. Basically I have fallen for a guy and well he says he likes me an we've spent time together, call and text each other every day without fail etc Anyway to the point, whenever i bring up the subject of us actually getting together properly he just ...
A. 7 May 2007: When did his last relationship end and how long was it for? It is better to take your time. You do not want to be a rebound. Allow him to find himself first before he rushes into a new relationship. In the end, you will probably end up hurt if ... (read in full...)
Do guys just assume that you're dating even if you don't have the actual talk? I'm confused.
Q. I feel kind of stupid asking this question but here goes... I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time, and recently something happened between us. He admitted he had feelings for me, we kissed, and he told me that he'd been in lov...
A. 7 May 2007: The "talk" doesn't always happen, but if you are confused, just ask. Yeah, I know, totally easier said than done- can be awkward. It's always easier to approach it lightheartedly. You can jokingly ask, "so am I your girlfriend already, or what?" Or ... (read in full...)
My bf broke up w/ me b/c of the way I acted...but it was due to my depression! How do I get him back?
Q. I recently found out that I'm suffering from depression and anxiety and that I have for a long time now (for a few years). My boyfriend broke up with me because I got frustrated about some details of getting home, got in a mood and walked out on his ...
A. 5 May 2007: I have suffered from depression and I can definitely sympathize with your problem. I have trouble with friendships sometimes because I tend to neglect people when I am depressed and they take it personally. It can be very difficult to tell someone ... (read in full...)
I fear I will never get over HIS ex...
Q. There seem to be a lot of women who share this problem: the EX. I met my boyfriend and the relationship became intense right away and we completely fell in love with each other within a month. But soon after he left for a trip for several months. We ...
A. 5 May 2007: I don't know specific details besides that she broke up with him. But he said, they should have broke up years ago. Still, he ended up very depressed. He is now away on a trip- it's a five month trip and we both decided it was good because he could ... (read in full...)
I fear I will never get over HIS ex...
Q. There seem to be a lot of women who share this problem: the EX. I met my boyfriend and the relationship became intense right away and we completely fell in love with each other within a month. But soon after he left for a trip for several months. We ...
A. 4 May 2007: Thank you so much for the advice. I feel better even just reading that people understand how I feel. I particularly liked the advice about making a list of good points about OUR relationship. The best way is to focus on the things we have together ... (read in full...)
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