How do I help my daughter without interfering?
Q. My daughter has been going out with the same guy for over 5 years. They have spent nearly every night together at college and have always been best friend. They have been under a lot of stress lately and last weekend they got into a fight and he ...
A. 11 October 2008: It sounds to me like this guy needs to be left alone for sometime. I think that by giving him space, he's more likely to eventually come round and contact her when he's ready. It could be that he needs quite a lot of reassurance, and that means at... (read in full...)
My classmate pressurises me for sex and I'm starting to feel scared to say no!
Q. Theres this boy in my class and he says i have to have sex withhim, but i dont feel ready. Its horrible though because he says stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable and he's started putting his hands down my shirt and once down my skirt i told him ...
A. 11 October 2008: Tell him to get lost. If he does it again, report him for sexual assault. Do NOT let him get near your self esteem. Bullies will try anything from flattery to emotional abuse to convince you. That's because destabilising peoples self esteem (... (read in full...)
My boyfriend shows my nude pictures to his friends, isn't this wrong?
Q. My boy friend used to be addicted to porn but now he doesnt havethe internet and is forever taking pictures of my bits. I wouldnt be to bothered but he shows his friends at i'm still young and i feel very uncomfortable but he says if i love him then ...
A. 11 October 2008: You're not stupid, you feel it's wring because it is. Your boyfriend needs to grow up. He's getting physical pleasure from something that makes you uncomfortable, and yeah he is asking alot. and then he shows it to your friends?!!?! To put it anot... (read in full...)
My young girlfriend has lost her sense of reality, accepting the advanced of a septuagenarian!
Q. my beautiful girlfriend was hit on by her 75 year old basketball coach in Germany. She is 23 and has been on an exchange now for several months and though I have updated my original question a couple of times (http://www.dear...
A. 11 October 2008: Nope, not right. Kind of out of order.... (read in full...)
Married for 7 months and husband is spitting, slapping and verbally abusing me...
Q. well, long story short, i have been married now for 7 months, really a civil marriage because in my husband's theory i needed a marriege license to live aboard with him, anyways, we met in 2005 on the internet, he was the perfect man, we talk online ...
A. 11 October 2008: Um, is there a reason this woman doesn't want him to see her child? GET OUT NOW my mum's only just got out of an abusive marriage. Don't waste time, i he's gonna change he's got to do that, you should get a lawyer and get the f**k out of t... (read in full...)
Should I follow my dreams or listen to my friends?
Q. My friends are mad at me for following my dream. ive always dreamed of being a really good cheerleader. And this year I tryed out for my school cheering squad, AND MADE IT!!! The girls in cheerleading say im really good, and im extreamly happy about ...
A. 11 October 2008: Be true to yourself. Real friends tend to be supportive of their friends' dreams.
Are they worried because they think you've given into pressure? Because unless they're a lot older than you they can't tell you not to follow that. Or are you chan... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??
Q. My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I ...
A. 11 October 2008: Hi, two things
Firstly, this really is just a guy thing. A lot of guys look at porn even when they're in committed relationships. (I'm a guy, I have a lot of friends) I also know lots of guys who don't look at porn at all or don't look at porn ... (read in full...)
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