Like what
he writes?
... Add *akaman to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *akaman a private message | | | *akaman's profile:I live in the US. I am a student.
I've had problems with my girlfriend's sexual past and with sexuality in general. I'm working at finding the root of my problems and so far it seems to be going well. If you would like to know anything else just message me. |
|
I want her to take an HIV test as shes had a few sexual partners, she says I should just trust her!! Its wrecking us please help!
Q. Hi...I came across this site during a desperate attempt to resolve my relationship which is falling apart as I type. I'm a 24 1/2 year old male who has had his first serious girl friend ever. I was a virgin before meeting her, and fell in love...
A. 22 March 2007: Wow! At first I thought maybe I posted this question. You and I have A LOT in common. Except my girlfriend did have an exam after she got together with me. I would go with what Dr Pete said. If you ever need to talk to anyone about this feel ... (read in full...)
Not sure if he remembers hes still got old x rated photos of his ex, but its bothering me!
Q. hi i found some xxxx rated photos of my partner and his ex girlfriend i told him and he deleted them but he has 2 more copies that i know of i did ask him and he said he didnt have anymore it was such a long time ago the photos but i still feel ...
A. 22 March 2007: I'm sorry you had to find those pictures. I can imagine how much it hurt to see them. It seems like you just had some bad luck in finding them. I think you should tell him about the other copies. He may or may not know about them but their presen... (read in full...)
I found an old dating site profile of my gf - Is it inappropriate to bring up? I found it funny!
Q. Going through my old email messages I was searching for email my girlfriend once sent me with a phrase she uses for herself. I accidently hit the search web tab in Gmail and it came up with an old profile she had on a matchmaking site. At first I ...
A. 5 March 2007: Thank you for your answer. But I would like to point out that it was never my intention to embarrass her. I found it funny because she is funny and her profile reflected that. I think she is hilarious and some of her quizes and questions(on the ... (read in full...)
I didn't have sex w/ her b/c I'm against one night stands. She wants to get closer and I like her, but don't like how she is so "loose" w/ guys!
Q. Hi, I wanted to ask for advice. I went to a works weekend and shared a flat with a friend and two girls. After lots of drink one of the girls started getting very close with me. Then she started kissing my mate (i didnt know this until after the ...
A. 16 February 2007: I would not get romantically involved with this woman if she has been loose in your eyes. It just sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. If she was acting this way with you and your friend, imagine how you would feel when you found out all the ... (read in full...)
If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution?
Q. If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution? It’s seems kind off contradictory doesn’t it? I mean how are people suppose to learn that viewing women as sex objects is wrong when things like ...
A. 16 February 2007: I read a great book on this exact question called Pornography:The Other Side by FM Christensen. It brought up a lot of counter arguments to the idea that pornography is evil. It starts at human desire, the differences between female and male desire ... (read in full...)
I found an old dating site profile of my gf - Is it inappropriate to bring up? I found it funny!
Q. Going through my old email messages I was searching for email my girlfriend once sent me with a phrase she uses for herself. I accidently hit the search web tab in Gmail and it came up with an old profile she had on a matchmaking site. At first I ...
A. 16 February 2007: Thanks for all your responses. I think I will go with not telling her. It doesn't bother me at all and judging from how she has reacted to my inquiries in the past I would do best to forget about it.
Thanks again!... (read in full...)
What's the average number of sexual partners for a 17 year old in the UK?
Q. im 17 and only slept with 1 person, all my mates have slept with about 5 by now lol whats the avergae for a 17 year old in the UK?...
A. 14 February 2007: You shouldn't feel as if you have to reach a certain number. But you shouldn't have to deny yourself enjoyment. Do whatever feels good to you but please keep your health and heart in mind before you do anything rash. ... (read in full...)
Would this stop you from marrying her?
Q. Open question would you date a young lady who does oral sex once in her past,would you make her be your wife or girlfrend. Would you date her...
A. 16 January 2007: No, oral sex in the past would not stop me from marrying or being in a relationship with someone I cared about.
It is difficult to know certain things about the people you love. But times are changing and what may have been looked upon in horror y... (read in full...)
Worried about partying with her friends when she's slept with half of them... and I'm a virgin!
Q. Im desperate to know whats going on. Im so confused about so many things in my current relationship. First off, I am 18, and yes, you may say everything you want about being young and having relationships, but love comes in many forms. Anyways, i've ...
A. 16 January 2007: If this is bothering you now maybe you should consider what motivates you to save yourself for "the one".
I used to say I was not going to have sex. I looked down upon people who did. I was simply jealous that they had the opportunity while it... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but she is too loose. Why? This is a real problem for me, it takes me ages to reach orgasm.
Q. Good Day everyone. I have a problem..this is linked to my sex life.. Most of the time, when ever I have sex with my gf, I could hardly feel her. It is so loose that I dont know what to do and due to that, it takes me ages to get an orgasm.....
A. 16 January 2007: I used to have a similar problem. I would go for a long time and I thought it was because my girlfriend had a big vagina. Then I realized that my problems were emotional. Judging from my experience you can have a few different problems.
It co... (read in full...)
Obsessed with my girlfriend's sexual history. Should I look at the hidden computer files?
Q. I have had problems with my girlfriend's sexual past before and sometimes I think I am getting over it. However, last night I was using her computer and I noticed that there were some hidden files that I could not access. Judging from the file names ...
A. 5 December 2006: I'd like to thank everyone who gave me a thoughtful response. I really appreciate all the thought you put into this. It is great to know that there is an outlet for these terrible feelings tornadoing around inside my mind.
Since I posted this que... (read in full...)
I feel terrible about my past bad choices, and thinking about what I've done hurts my wife, too!
Q. I hope we can get some help here. I am married about 6 months. We are in our fortys and in our second marriages. We are sure we are perfect for each other in all ways. Our problems stem from my past before marriage about 20 years ago. I lived fo...
A. 7 February 2006: I am very glad that you care how your wife feels about your past. I have had the same problem with a partner's sexual past and it can ruin a lot of otherwise happy moments. It's great that she can talk to you about it and that you are sympathizing ... (read in full...)
Even when I work to support her, my girlfriend seems to put her relationship with her ex before hers with me!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I love her more then anything. She is amazing and she loves me so much. The problem is I can't get over her past. I know this is standard. A lot of guys have this problem. She has been with 5 ...
A. 24 January 2006: I sympathize with you. I know the raging tornado of the thoughts in your head and the turmoil your soul is in. You waited for so long only to end up with someone who doesn't seem to appreciate the effort, but things happen. If it is any consolation ... (read in full...)
Should my wife still socialise with a guy who is interested in her?
Q. I'm having a disagreement with my wife. If a guy approaches her while she's out with girlfriends, obviously he's interested. If she tells him she's married and not to get the wrong idea, is it proper for her to socialize with him after making...
A. 14 December 2005: Man, I have had this same problem too with my girlfriend and her male friends. I get suspicious and it ends up with her being mad at me. I finally talked to my girlfriend about it and she agreed that most of the guys she used to hang around with ... (read in full...)
Married at 20 years old and I'm not happy...did I marry too young?
Q. hi. i got marrried 8 months ago at the age of 20. now i can't help but wonder if i made a mistake. i know that my husband loves me and i love him, but not in the same way. we recently moved and i began an affaire with someone we both worked with. ...
A. 14 December 2005: I agree with the answer above. You are going to have to be selfish in this situation. If you end up sacrificing your happiness for another's all you are going to do is resent that person because it will feel very one-sided. You are going to have to ... (read in full...)
I hate that he's slept with so many girls before me-I'm obssessed by this. Help
Q. I need advice about how to deal with my boyfriends past. He was open when we met about his past sex life and there has been a lot of girls. This didn't bother me at first but, like it has with exes, it soon got out of control the more I fell in love ...
A. 14 December 2005: I have had this same problem. I actually posted a question about it on here. I've had some time to think about it and I have even gone to counseling for it. It has helped a lot and I reccommend that you try counseling. You sound exactly like I was ... (read in full...)
| *akaman's friends
These are mutual friends, so *akaman has
added them and they have added *akaman!
|
