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Should I trust my BF even after he lied to me about contacting another girl?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about three months. We just became officially boyfriend and girlfriend about three weeks ago. Last week I was at his house when he ran to drop something off I got on his computer and did some snooping. Well there is ...

A.   26 January 2013: It's seems like you are. I've never felt like this or acted like this in a relationship thus I am coming for advice on ways to trust him again. He is working through trusting me again as well. I never said I was a saint for a gf. ... (read in full...)

The Ex looms large in our relationship. What can do to keep him in my life without pressuring him?

Q.   I met this guy and he is amazing. We have gone on three dates and quite frankly I feel very comfortable with him. But we have one MAJOR problem. His ex gf. They dated for 5 years and broke up a month ago(he broke up with her but she's not ov...

A.   13 August 2012: Well thank you ladies. Not so much cerberus... We decided to take it day by day. And really I was looking for advice on how to be a good friend to him. I know that he's not ready for a relationship but all of his friends are her friends. As you can ... (read in full...)

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

Q.   The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...

A.   20 April 2012: M is actually not seeing or sleepin with anyother girls. And we will be together as soon as I get home. ... (read in full...)

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

Q.   The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...

A.   20 April 2012: Yeah we were officially broken up when I left. And there is just something about my FWB that's so addictive. Just the way he acts and talks and just his entire demeanor makes me extremely attracted to him and it's really hard to just turn that off ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my BF with my FWB!

Q.   I have this boyfriend. We have been together for three weeks. We had sex last week and we had planned in waiting longer to do it. But what happens happens. But now he says we can't do it again. But there is this other guy who I have been sleeping ...

A.   14 November 2011: I ended up breaking it off with him but I didn't tell him that I cheated. I posted a new question as to my new current problem I am facing with my FWB. HELPP... (read in full...)

This guy I've been talking to didn't want to sleep with me...and I ended up sleeping with his friend. Why do I feel badly?

Q.   I have been talking this guy and we have been keeping it cool. I spent the night at his place twice but we have only done oral. So I was with him and his best friend we had all been drinking and his friend asked us if we were staying the night since ...

A.   16 April 2011: wordlywise- I don't think it was meant to be a set up im just very open and people are curious. But I still want to hang out with the guy I was talking to and now he is acting strange. Welsh Uncle Dave-I wasn't drunk but i was pretty tipsy, bu... (read in full...)

What do I do when my best friend lied about not loosing her virginity?

Q.   I cannot trust or look at my best friend of 6 years the same way again after she lied about not loosing her virginity to her boyfreind of less than 1 month and they have had an on and off relationship throughout that month. The day prior to her ...

A.   28 January 2010: hm i disagree with "Not my name" my best friend did the same thing. she told me that she was going to break up with her boyfriend who she wasnt happy with and i wasnt to fond of and instead she slept with him. I was very upset bc she lied to me ... (read in full...)

Advice needed. How can I get him to last longer?

Q.   my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?...

A.   5 January 2010: With me and my bf I usually will have him come once then he is usually good after that to do it for a while if that doesn't work then just go slow.and then when he's gonna come go really slow. ... (read in full...)

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

Q.   So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

A.   5 January 2010: Yeah. I see the points you are making. I am thinking that I am going to just try and see if there is something to salvage out of our relationship. And like I said this is my first really big relationship and his since like 5 yes ago. And he isn't ... (read in full...)

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

Q.   So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

A.   5 January 2010: I mean I really do like my bf but I don't like how plane jane the relationship has gotten. I like spontanaity which is one of the thing we had a lot of before and now I'm just kinda bored with the way things are going. What could I do to maybe spice ... (read in full...)

I think my teacher may be attracted to me

Q.   i think my teacher might be attracted to me, i see him all the time and we're pretty close. some things he has said or done: told me i am beautiful, cute, said i had a nice arse, once he even said i was orering him around like a married couple. ...

A.   5 January 2010: I've hadthis happen to me before and it ended up he was interested in me. For a while we couldn't do anything about it but then one day we decided to get together and i'm still with him and I am a sophomore on college. If we hadn't had those first ... (read in full...)

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