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writes:I have this boyfriend. We have been together for three weeks. We had sex last week and we had planned in waiting longer to do it. But what happens happens. But now he says we can't do it again. But there is this other guy who I have been sleeping with for a while that I started to get feelings for before I met my bf and we just have a really strong sexual connection. Anyway. We had sex two nights ago. And it was awesome as always but now I'm just faced with what to do with the fact that I cheated. I still really like my bf but I have been single for so long I feel like this change to a relationship might be too hard. And it's not fair to him either. So what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jujubie +, writes (14 November 2011):
Jujubie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI ended up breaking it off with him but I didn't tell him that I cheated. I posted a new question as to my new current problem I am facing with my FWB. HELPP
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): You really want the FWB, not the BF. Stop kidding yourself and hurting the BF.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): think of what you realy want, and what is going on. If you think your FWB is worth keeping around then tell your BF, or let him go. this is something you have to decide, not ask for what other people would do. There are to many types of people to stick with just one thought, think of what you want.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 October 2011):
Walk away. You've cheated 3 weeks into it, and you know that you don't want to have to abstain from sex. Please walk away and don't hurt him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): Be honest. Of ourse he'll be mad you cheated, but at least you were honest with him.
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