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Am I wrong to wonder what my husband is getting up to on his computer?

Q.   hi i only been married three months maybe i should have asked you first my husband uses the internet a lot has loads of people he im`s i know some are people for business but about a week after we got married he let me use his computer and i tried ...

A.   22 December 2009: You need to get to the bottom of this. It's one thing to snoop, it's another to take a look at something when it's thrown in your face... as this was. Being on dating sites is unacceptable coming from a married man. You need to talk to him about ... (read in full...)

I only had sex once and I didn't love it, what did I do wrong?

Q.   Ive only had sex once before. It was almost a year ago. I have to say I didnt find it really that good. I didnt orgasm.. All i felt was alot of pressure and the thrusting and pain. Is that normal? ALl my other friends seem to love sex. I tend to ...

A.   18 December 2009: I agree w/ the last answer. Your emotional situation w/ that person has ALOT to do w/ it. I didn't enjoy it the 1st time, or the 2nd. It actually took awhile before I finally found out what it was all about. You'll get there in time. ... (read in full...)

I'm a very sexual person and feeling deprived!

Q.   I'm in my early 20s and my boyfriend of 3 years is in his mid 30s. We had a very healthy sex life up until about 6 months ago. He has started being somewhat distant when it comes to sex. I'm a very sexual person and I feel deprived. I've looked up ...

A.   18 December 2009: Thanks for all of your help! I feel better, I appreciate the good advice! Also, I wanted to let you guys know who mentioned communication, your right, I didn't mention that. However, I've tried that too. I've approached him w/ it every way I've know ... (read in full...)

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and torn between two lovers

Q.   i am so confused. i have a boyfriend who i am not happy with. he lies,has hardly any ambition even if he works hard,he has nothing organized. i am so fed up. he has past issues with his family,is terribly ignorant and is a bit suicidal,when things ...

A.   17 December 2009: Don't feel guilty about leaving your current b/f if your unhappy. Look out for #1. If he lies to you and doesn't provide, he probably doesn't think too much about your feelings. Don't stay w/ someone simply because your afraid of being alone. I'd ... (read in full...)

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

Q.   Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

A.   17 December 2009: Really you shouldn't have to forget it or accept it. If his talking to an ex makes you uneasy, he should respect that. Does she mean that much to him that he deems it necessary to hurt you in order to have a "friendship" w/ her? I would ask him ... (read in full...)

Please help...hes married

Q.   I need help... I really like this man that is married. And i can tell he likes me too. I have never told this man. Cause i know hes married. And im not the type of person to break up someones home... I think about him all the time. Please help. Do i ...

A.   17 December 2009: Keep it to yourself. Telling him would be selfish on your part, he is married. Someone else loves him very much, enough to promise themself to him for the rest of their life. He may also have children, would you want to be at fault for a child to ... (read in full...)

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