Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 25 April 2012: I personally wouldn't have a problem dating someone who has done porn, as long as they weren't doing it anymore. I would also want them to be tested to make sure they didn't have any diseases before we made the relationship official. I'm not trying ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so jealous in my relationship, I'm afraid its going to break what we have
Q. Hello, im having touble with my boyfriend. I dont know if im jelouse or i have trust issues, which he's never done anything to make me not trust him. Well anyways Im white/ and have cherakee indian in me and he's Puerto rican. He told me he never ...
A. 25 April 2012: "He doesn't know these women he commented on,and if he did perhaps he wouldn't like them. So what do you mean by that jr23?"
What I meant was since he doesn't know them, all he has to go on is looks. If he talked to these women and got to know the... (read in full...)
A beautiful girl cares about me but I am not ready for a relationship
Q. Hello. How do I say goodbye to a BEAUTIFUL girl? She has everything going for her but I am not ready for relationship with her. I want a no strings relationship and I am getting that with this other girl right now. My friend told me she is hurt t...
A. 25 April 2012: What exactly did you expect her to do? If I were her, I would have done the same thing. She was looking for a relationship with you, and you turned her down. It's common sense that she will move on to someone who wants to be with her.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend acknowledge our relationship on his Facebook wall?
Q. Ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now I decided to change relationship status on facebook and tagged him to say its him I'm dating but even though he changed to say his in a relationship he has ignored my request.he also has deleted the ...
A. 25 April 2012: Don't assume the worst. After all, you haven't asked him. Maybe he just doesn't want people knowing his business. On the other hand, if he's one of those people who is constantly on facebook updating his statuses and commenting on other peoples' ... (read in full...)
B/f proposed to me but I'm unsure since he seems addicted to porn
Q. My bf of 2.5yrs has asked me to marry him. I know most women would be absolutely giddy with happiness, yet I told him that I needed to think about it. Earlier in the year I walked in on him jacking off to porn. When we first started dating he told ...
A. 25 April 2012: It doesn't sound like your boyfriend is addicted, although it could become that way in the future. If his behavior towards you sexually is already starting to change, that's not a good sign. I would also be concerned at the fact that he's watching ... (read in full...)
My 19 year old sister is planning on having sex with a 51 year old man she met on the internet!
Q. Ok I will just admit it....I found my sister's email acct password and I snooped. So looking through everything I find all these messsages from a man she met online...theres a ton of them, it starts out with them basically getting to know each ...
A. 22 April 2012: Yes, you should talk to her, and/or have your parents talk to her. It does seem like this man just wants sex. And if he gets it he will disappear from her life, and she will be left heartbroken. After all, how could they really have anything in ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he wants to go to a strip club with his friends?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, i'm 48 he's 50.... we have a good relationship now, but it's been up and down over the years. I work hard staying in shape, looking good and pleasing him sexually. The other night he brought up that he ...
A. 22 April 2012: It's okay to feel sensitive about it, especially since you are starting to feel self conscious about your appearance due to age. Let's face it, strippers are usually aged early to mid twenties. Look at it this way, though. At least he told you he ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so jealous in my relationship, I'm afraid its going to break what we have
Q. Hello, im having touble with my boyfriend. I dont know if im jelouse or i have trust issues, which he's never done anything to make me not trust him. Well anyways Im white/ and have cherakee indian in me and he's Puerto rican. He told me he never ...
A. 22 April 2012: He may find black women attractive, but it is purely physical. He doesn't know these women he commented on, and if he did perhaps he wouldn't like them. There is more to a relationship than just physical attraction. He obviously loves you for your ... (read in full...)
I'd rather view videos than be in a relationship. Is it wrong to love porn?
Q. Is it wrong to love porn? Ive never really thought about it until the other night but porn makes me emotionally warm and happy . Ive never had a girlfriend nor have had sex but to be honest I would rather choose Videos over trying to be in ...
A. 22 April 2012: If it makes you happy, then I don't see anything wrong with it. What would be wrong is if you got into a relationship with someone and ignored her sexually to watch videos. Although, there is one thing you should keep in mind. If you ever DO want... (read in full...)
Why am I physically affectionate with people who don't mean that much to me but can't be the same flirty affectionate with my best friend?
Q. I'm a seventeen year old guy and my best friend is a sixteen year old girl who I get on with better than I do with my own family. We are really close; I trust her with pretty much everything - to be honest I'd rather live with her than with my own ...
A. 20 April 2012: You said yourself you love her like a SISTER, so being affectionate with her would feel weird since you are not attracted to her. I think you need to talk to her about this, maybe she is unaware of how uncomfortable it makes you. If you truly feel ... (read in full...)
Can you please help me understand this insecure man?
Q. I've been with this guy 4 years and have had a child together, who's almost 3. At first he always accused me of cheating then it went away for years. Last Saturday I went to work at a fundraiser for my daughter's school to build a new play...
A. 20 April 2012: If someone is constantly accusing you of cheating when you've given them no reason to think that, it usually means that he/she is the one cheating. They know what they do behind your back, so they automatically assume you would do the same. Another ... (read in full...)
Guys, what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous?
Q. Okay this is a question For the guys mainly. what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous? I thought hit and sexy always meant the same thing. But i got called hot and sexy by a guy recently so ...
A. 20 April 2012: When I hear guys use the words "hot" and "sexy" to describe a girl, they are usually also talking about parts of the girl, like tits and ass. This is just something I've noticed. I assume all they are thinking about is what she would look like ... (read in full...)
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