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... Send *onnyBoyo a private message | | | *onnyBoyo's profile:Hi, my friends tend not to phone me "for a chat", I'm not very good at small talk. But they do talk to me when they have a problem and ask my advice all the time. Sometimes it's because they want me to come up with an unconventional answer - they can think of the obvious things to do but they want me to think outside the box. Somehow that seems to be something I can do.
Self employed but not managerial.
Confident but can also be shy.
I have a small number of really good friends rather than lots of acquaintances.
Understated and not into bling.
Can be intellectual & good with technology but also like chick flick stuff e.g. Little Dorrit, 13 going on 30, X Factor
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Should I be more vocal during sex?
Q. I'm a virgin, but during oral sex and foreplay (I guess you could say), I've had an orgasm. I only get "sexual" with my boyfriends. So recently, my boyfriend and I have been doing a little bit more than 1st base. I feel pretty lucky since I do tend ...
A. 18 December 2008: I agree that you should do what feels right and not try and do anything just because you think you should.
The most important thing is that you make sure he knows (a) you enjoyed it a lot and (b) that you had a great orgasm, so if you're finding ... (read in full...)
He said we can't date officially but that I should wait for him, until one day out of the blue he stopped contact!??
Q. ok im dont really know where to start a couple of months ago me and my boyfriend of 3 years split. this was due to falling out of love with each other. then a couple of weeks later i ended up sleeping with someone else and then we started texting ...
A. 18 December 2008: It means he has moved on and you should too. That kind of manipulation (wait for me and don't see anyone else) shows a complete lack of respect, consideration or esteem (his own self-esteem and his esteem for you). So move on and find someone who ... (read in full...)
This poem is for my boyfriend...
Q. Hi im Candice and i wont to no what you guys thing of my poem before i give if to my bf Here gos ... The momont that you became that part of me. I knew that your heart belonged to just me I love it when you look at me with your ...
A. 18 December 2008: The momont that you became that part of me,
I knew that your heart belonged to just me.
I love it when you look at me with your lovely blue eyes and stare at me until your lips meet mine.
There's not one second of the day that I forget you. ... (read in full...)
Do I do something or stand on the sidelines and watch?
Q. i want to know if my boyfriend of 7 years fancies someone else.she is his brothers wifes sister. i have a horrible gut feeling in my stomach that they like each other. he recently added her as a friend to his facebook.did not mention this to me.i am ...
A. 18 December 2008:
What kind of relationship do you want? One where you have to join a pointless networking site to keep an eye on your boyfriend or one based on honesty and trust? Tell him exactly what you've told us and ask him. He may not even realise he's doin... (read in full...)
Married for 5 years and he's cheated on me twice...
Q. Me and my husband have been married for 5 years, we have 3 young kids, he's cheated on me already and produced a child with the other person and I decided to stay. Now I found out he has cheated again on both occasions I knew in my heart he was. ...
A. 10 December 2008:
Make a choice. Either:
(a) Accept that you can't fully satisfy him. It's hard to hear but if that's the way it is that's the way it is. As long as he is discrete and not taking the piss just let him get on with it. If he is not being discre... (read in full...)
How do I know that she won't do the same to me some day?
Q. She is on her way out of a relationship with long time boyfriend and he doesn't know it yet, we have kept things clean for the most part and I'm kinda waiting in the background to get with her but how do I know that she won't do the same to me some ...
A. 10 December 2008: If you love her don't worry about it. Just because she's being a bit of a coward with him doesn't mean she will with you or that she will ever want to leave you anyway.
Also, every relationship is different, some you don't handle the best way, but... (read in full...)
I try to eat right, he wants crap, what do I do?
Q. Im a vegan and I eat very healthy but for my boyfriend (also he smokes which I don't approve of) he eats a lot of crap, he does go the gym with me. Then he had some health issues from the junk he eats. His doctor's orders are to: Eat more healt...
A. 10 December 2008:
My advice is control your anger and tell him as calmly as you can that you're not going to see him self-destruct - either he stops playing Russian roulette with his health or you're leaving.... (read in full...)
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