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I've been working within the psychological, medical, and legal arenas for 5 years and have developed my own model of psychotherapy, Immersion Therapy. Information about my professional practice can be found at: www.joannaleigh.com
I am also the President of a wonderful charitable organization, Friends of Weece, Inc., that provides micro-loans (as well as other necessary services- medical, HIV awareness, counseling, legal advocacy) to women starting up their own small businesses in Tanzania, Africa. The charitable site address is: www.weece.com
It is my pleasure to be an agony aunt, as I have my own website devoted to answering these types of questions, as well as a variety of others. Giving back is simply what I do, with compassion, creativity, and often humor. I hope you will find my answers to be of some help :)
My Q&A website is: www.whatwouldjoannado.com
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I know he had been lying to me but why?
Q. Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me ...
A. 28 March 2008: No, he doesn't feel bad about lying, because he doesn't realize you've bagged him. He's just trying to impress you, as you've surmised. It's totally immature and shows some serious insecurities on his part. If he REALLY had a lofe that he was ... (read in full...)
Cell phone tracking question...
Q. Does anyone know if there is a way to track a cell phone? (ex. finding out where a person is located at any certain time)I also am hoping someone can answer this... Can my cell phone service provider give me a list of the text messages from her...
A. 28 March 2008: Ummm, why are poking into her personal stuff, dude???? Would you want her doing it to you?
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Should I relocate to be with him even though he might never marry me?
Q. what should i do? background - together for 7months - relationship been great. we met each other's family, hang out together all the time - i love him and i think he does too problem - he's relocating to another country and i don't know if ...
A. 28 March 2008: Wow, this is SOOOOOO easy : NO!!!!!! And if you try I shall be forced to track you down and flog you mercilessly with a wet noodle. Seriously, unless you really hate yourself and desire a miserable life, don't do it.
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Is my boyfriend lying to me?
Q. Been dating someone for past 10 months. He is 49 years old. When we first started dating, he was texting a 29 year old girl he had met before we got together. Said they were “just friends”. He shared with me that they went to Cancun over a ...
A. 28 March 2008: You are SO not ridiculous. Yes, of course he's lying. Duh. And yes, he was still figuring out what he wanted to do about his relationship with her during the first few months that the two of you were seeing each other. It would appear that he ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend Cheating On Me
Q. My girlfriend of 7 months cheated on me one week after losing our virginity to each other. We were at a party and I hardly got to speak to her because she was with her girl friends, however I said goodbye to her then went home with my own friends. ...
A. 10 March 2008: Honey, with all this drama, you could start your own theater company. Forget your friends, forget your family, and don't worry about what she wants. What is in YOUR heart??????
Hopefully it's finding some other girl who will truly respect ... (read in full...)
Is it worth just keeping on 'meeting' with him in the hope that it may go right or do I just walk away??
Q. I was seeing a guy who was hurt badly by his ex. They were together 5 years and she cheated on him, and now he just doesn't trust anyone for fear of getting hurt.. So we stopped seeing each other as I couldnt hack the fact that he was distant ...
A. 10 March 2008: Sweetie, I SO know where you're coming from!!!! You're not going to like my advice at all, but here it goes:
It is highly unlikely that he is suddenly going to look up at you and realize that you are this fantastic girl who is always there fo... (read in full...)
I experimented with myself and now I don't know how to feel. Any advice?
Q. Hi. Last night I found myself experimenting with my body. I suddenly had all these urges which were probably brought on by the fact that I haven't had sex in nearly a year. At one point, I even tried finding and stimulating my g-spot...... And I'm ...
A. 18 February 2008: Oh Please-- pleasuring one's self is one of the great joys in life! And I applaud you for not having random sex all the time, having been abtinent for the past year. That means sex clearly means something to you. Good for you. Pleasure for m... (read in full...)
His ex tries to sabotage his relationships. Is it worth salvaging?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks. We've been out once and really hit it off. the conversation is wonderful. His personality is great. This past weekend we were not able to go out because he was with his ex-wife who is still madly ...
A. 18 February 2008: Ok, listen closely-- DO NOT get involved with a man who still has an emotional connection to his ex--especially a man who chooses to spend time with his ex over you. Are we clear? There are unresolved issues with those two (she is still madly in... (read in full...)
Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?
Q. Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are ...
A. 18 February 2008: Ok--I have to agree with all of the above above answers. I'm a female, have tried this numerous times, with a few diff partners, in a few diff ways, and personally, I think it sucks. My butt is an exit, not an entrance. However, nobody has ever ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's hiding something from me?
Q. Give me some feedback, my boyfriend always hides his phone, keeps in his pants and hardly lists any phone numbers, they are unlisted, just by digits, to top it off he turns his cell phone off when he charges it, the ringer is always silent, to me ...
A. 15 February 2008: I disagree with the other advice people. I think there is something up. It may not be that he is cheating on you, but clearly he has SOME reason to behave in a secretive manner. His friends calling him at 2am does not explain why they are listed ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend put the condom on wrong! Am I Pregnant?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago last wednesday and i were due to come on my period wednesday just gone,, i used a condom but my bf put it on the wrong way at first then just turned it over,, could i get pregnant from that write bak asap plz...
A. 15 February 2008: Hey sweetie, it is possible to get pregnant from the bit of pre-cum that may have come out even before he ejaculated, so you may want to go get a home pregnancy test. But please relax, as many thoings can disrupt the cycle of periods, like stress, ... (read in full...)
Ok, what do guys really prefer in the way of hair, down there?
Q. hi i was just wondering do guys really care about how much hair we have down there? and if so what do u prefer? brazilian?trimmed?etc.....
A. 28 January 2008: Hey girl-- I don't know ANY U.S.A. guys who like their women to be full-bushin' it. The 70's fro' down below went out, well, in the 70's. Most guys I know like their women trimmed and neat, with some shaving. Brazilians are always popular. The ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??
Q. My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...
A. 28 January 2008: Honey, rule one of sex: you don't ever have to do anything you don't want to. And anybody who isn't down with it can go find some hootchie-mama because you don't want him anyway. Having said this: we should figure out WHY you don't want to go... (read in full...)
My best friend wants to take me to a hotel for sex, I need advice!
Q. My best friend and I have been hooking up. No sex. just kissing and stuff. But, recently he had the idea of going to a hotel and just having sex. I'm well up for it when he asked, and he isnt making me, but I'm so afraid I'll get attatched. He says ...
A. 28 January 2008: Hi chickie- I do, agree with Taste of India and the others.....if you yourself are a little afraid you will get attached, then you pretty much have answered your own question. It does seem clear that your friend isn't into having you as a GF, so,... (read in full...)
I'm confuesed and don't want to make the first move.
Q. i've known this guy for over a year and although he's lived a long way away from me for most of this, we've kept very much in touch as friends and have always had a fairly flirty relationship. now he is living much closer to me and i've gone to stay ...
A. 28 January 2008: Hi Confused Girl :),
I completely feel your pain. It's always difficult to try to understand what somebody else might be thinking, especially after you've been intimate with them. I would keep two basic facts in mind: the first, that your fri... (read in full...)
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