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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks. We've been out once and really hit it off. the conversation is wonderful. His personality is great. This past weekend we were not able to go out because he was with his ex-wife who is still madly in love with him and tries to sabotage any relationship he starts. I was a little hurt he passed up time with me for her. I reacted in anger and told him not to bother calling me back. Now I feel horrible I hurt his feelings and I've tried to apologize but he asked me to not call him without hearing me out. I don't want to completely ruin our friendship and feel like there's something there worth salvaging. What do i do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 He is piqued and a tit for tat.
Just stay calm , be patient and wait till the fish swims back into your pond.
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reader, joannaleigh +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Ok, listen closely-- DO NOT get involved with a man who still has an emotional connection to his ex--especially a man who chooses to spend time with his ex over you. Are we clear?There are unresolved issues with those two (she is still madly in love, he chose to spend time with her instead of you for whatever reason), this IS NOT GOING TO END WELL FOR YOU. Do not stick it out hoping he will come around. Let him end his relationship drama once and for all, and then move on to another. Meanwhile, go find a great guy who does not still feel some attachment/guilt/love/whatever for his ex. Seriously. Do this now. Why are you still reading???? You should be on Match.com by now, girlfriend!joannaleigh
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