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I am scared that he is going to be grossed out by seeing me in swimsuit!

Q.   Okay, you all may think I am silly.....but, this is seriously causing me major distress. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have been sexually active. However, I haven't walked around naked a lot. I have bad cellulite and saddle bags ...

A.   22 April 2008: I understand what you are going through. But hun, if he does like you, he won't be grossed at all believe me! Every one of us is different, and none of is perfect! I used to be like you! I only wore bikinis with shorts because of my butt...But then ... (read in full...)

I wanted this guy to truly fall in love with me

Q.   Hello everyone! I have had this relationship for a time. Then we broke up temporarily for many reasons... We had few time to be together and we didn't "feed" our feelings. But now we are back together. Not as "couple" but as "special friends...

A.   19 April 2008: :) thanks. i think i will actually!... (read in full...)

I wanted this guy to truly fall in love with me

Q.   Hello everyone! I have had this relationship for a time. Then we broke up temporarily for many reasons... We had few time to be together and we didn't "feed" our feelings. But now we are back together. Not as "couple" but as "special friends...

A.   16 April 2008: ask oldersister thanks a lot for the advice again. i ended it. i'm searching for something better, like some song says i don't want "somebody just to get me trough the night". i'm open to meet new people and i think eventually love will find me. ... (read in full...)

I wanted this guy to truly fall in love with me

Q.   Hello everyone! I have had this relationship for a time. Then we broke up temporarily for many reasons... We had few time to be together and we didn't "feed" our feelings. But now we are back together. Not as "couple" but as "special friends...

A.   10 April 2008: That's a great point...But i'm not being forced into this. I agreed to be with him because we do have a sentimental connection, and we had a serious relationship before. I was kind of hoping that with time he would fall for me again, and I would ... (read in full...)

He wants me to cut my hair? I won't have a chance with him if I don't...so is he worth it?

Q.   i need some advice, i've got this guy i really like him and we are going ot meet soon but he says i ain't got a chance unless i cut my hair i really like my long hair and dont wanna cut it but i dont wanna miss out on being with him do u think i...

A.   10 April 2008: If you like your hair the way it is right now, don't cut it just because some guy wants you to!!! He is not going to like you more or less just because of your hair...That's futile! If he says you that, maybe he is not the right guy for you! ... (read in full...)

I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?

Q.   I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very ...

A.   9 April 2008: I think you should be careful about this situation...I know you don't want to judge him, and he was honest in telling you his story. But be careful!... (read in full...)

I'm so desperate for a baby, but my husband's not ready yet.

Q.   Ok, So I'm about to be 23 in a month... I've been married for almost 2 years, my husband and i have been together for a total of 5 years (we were high school sweethearts). I've run into a feeling lately of resentment towards him. I'm so much in love...

A.   9 April 2008: I understand how you are feeling! But I also understand your husband. You are young people with dreams and hopes! You should enjoy your wedding, have lots of fun while you can! A baby is a wonderful thing...But maybe your husband doesn't feel mature ... (read in full...)

I'm scared that she is testing me love....is she waiting for me to contact her?

Q.   Hi, I'm in love with someone and she is in love with me. We are kinda together but not really, we don't have a physically relationship, its just emotional. We see each every day for at least a few hours and both of us find that not enough. Any...

A.   9 April 2008: I really think you should give her some space...She asked for that time because it's what she probably wants. I think you should respect that. It's hard, I know...But what if she really gets angry if you try to contact her? ... (read in full...)

I cheated but now have allowed Christ back into my life. How can I get her to trust me?

Q.   I am going through relationship struggles with my fiancée, I cheated on her when we were living together, and she moved back to Georgia. a few weeks have gone by now, and I am starting to change, I am being more honest with myself and her, I am ...

A.   9 April 2008: You should give her some space for now...For a few days at least, see if she says something...If she tries to contact you... About your parents, you really should talk to them, ask them not to interfere so much with your problems...They love you,... (read in full...)

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