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*oana20
writes:Hello everyone!I have had this relationship for a time. Then we broke up temporarily for many reasons... We had few time to be together and we didn't "feed" our feelings. But now we are back together. Not as "couple" but as "special friends". We get together sometimes, but no-one knows about us.We like to be together, we like to talk, and I like many aspects of his personality. We are not in love, but we like each other, and there's an awesome "chemistry" going on. The physical aspect of this is also very good, we have lots of fun together too. But I feel that I'm kind of losing him...And I really don't want to. He rarely sends sms on his own, I am usually the one starting the conversation. I want to be with him but I feel that he doesn't make a big effort to have time to be with me. I really want to make this work out...I've tried to forget him while we were apart, but I couldn't and I felt really bad about not being with him. I know that he does like me, on his own way, but I think he put on this barrier that gets me away from him you see? I know this is selfish, but I want a real relationship, I want a boyfriend...I wanted this guy to truly fall in love for me...I just need some advice...Thanks.
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reader, joana20 +, writes (19 April 2008):
joana20 is verified as being by the original poster of the question:) thanks. i think i will actually!
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reader, joana20 +, writes (16 April 2008):
joana20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionask oldersister thanks a lot for the advice again. i ended it.
i'm searching for something better, like some song says i don't want "somebody just to get me trough the night". i'm open to meet new people and i think eventually love will find me. i'm feeling strange about all this, it's always hard to end something...
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reader, joana20 +, writes (10 April 2008):
joana20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's a great point...But i'm not being forced into this. I agreed to be with him because we do have a sentimental connection, and we had a serious relationship before. I was kind of hoping that with time he would fall for me again, and I would fall for him too. But well, maybe I'm just making excuses for his behaviour...I feel I should try to find love somewhere else. But then again, I feel safe and warm around him...
Thanks for your answer...I'll be thinking about what you said. I just don't want to rush into any precipitate decision. Since we got together again, it has just been about two, three weeks...Maybe I should give us a second shot...Maybe not...(there I am finding excuses...)
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