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... Send *ippySad a private message | | | *ippySad's profile:I do not really remember much about the first time I got to know myself. It was in so many different shapes and colors! You know, being alive is a precious gift. You can begin to imagine what it means to be consciously aware of this. Nevertheless, this life can be confusing, as things happen in so many unforeseen ways. In the middle of the eye of the tornado is not you, but a force, that drives the universe. You or I, depending on the perspective, just dance on the banks of lives flow, sometimes getting wet, sometimes sitting silently in deep meditation on the top of that yonder hill and sleeping most of the time, only to wake up soaking wet in the middle of the stream, fighting courageously to keep our head up.
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Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?
Q. Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...
A. 17 December 2010: It is always good, if not only for you, to speak your heart and share your feelings with your family. State your desires, even though you do not expect them to understand or follow up. Set your personal boundaries and set some rules for when others ... (read in full...)
Almost two year old wont listen what do I do
Q. My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to ...
A. 17 December 2010: try to find a kind of regular routine in life, so that the child knows what to expect, by the rhythm of the day and the rituals. Maybe find someone who wants to share the responsibility with you, involve the father in someway, when possible, or your ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong in my life to be so unhappy
Q. Hi, I am sad. Feeling disturbed, keeping up appearances. I am 42, man. (Remember the Answer to the Question in the Hitch Hickers Guide to the Galaxy?) My problem is, that I feel alone. I am in a relationship now for about six year, we ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hello Anonymous,
I would suggest, take a spiritual approach to life and forgive yourself for what may seem to be unsocial behavior. You are a human being, you have a heart, but you are also a personality, with a feeling of self and personal... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?
Q. Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...
A. 12 December 2010: oh, I have to add, I did not read completely careful. In my days, as far as I know, we did not sleep with each other, but there was some kissing. Sorry, in my mind I mixed up these bits. I think with having sex, hmmm, depends on the amount of love ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?
Q. Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...
A. 12 December 2010: no, it just happens like this in small communities, where the young people mix and remix, and it seems like all possible combinations are being tried out. It may hurt a bit, though, yes, I understand that truely. But I do not see the immorality in ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong in my life to be so unhappy
Q. Hi, I am sad. Feeling disturbed, keeping up appearances. I am 42, man. (Remember the Answer to the Question in the Hitch Hickers Guide to the Galaxy?) My problem is, that I feel alone. I am in a relationship now for about six year, we ...
A. 12 December 2010: thank you, yes. ... (read in full...)
Every time we talk about a relationship the conversation gets awkward!
Q. ok cupid heres one for you, im in love with my best friend (its a boy btw) but i dont want to be at all its just weird when we're together but we both try to stop it but nothing seems to work and its not exactly like we an avoid each other either ...
A. 9 December 2010: Take it easy. Be balanced. Let your love for him be a mixture of friendship and sexual attraction. You both were children and are now growing into adulthood. Respect the new feelings, also when they are confusing for now. Your intimacy with him in ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong in my life to be so unhappy
Q. Hi, I am sad. Feeling disturbed, keeping up appearances. I am 42, man. (Remember the Answer to the Question in the Hitch Hickers Guide to the Galaxy?) My problem is, that I feel alone. I am in a relationship now for about six year, we ...
A. 9 December 2010: Fortunately, things can change! We are doing better since I did some work on myself and what feelings stand in the way of my love and acceptation.... (read in full...)
Almost two year old wont listen what do I do
Q. My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to ...
A. 3 December 2010: Well, I remember when I got spanked, that did not make me feel more interested in listening closely to what you had to say? I actually have never been spanked by my parents. As a parent now, I find myself sometimes in distress and taking resort to... (read in full...)
How can I seduce a married lady
Q. i m a 26 yrs old guy..........i m havng affair with a 34 yr old married lady.....she has thre kids.....her husband is 50 yrs of age..how can i convince her for sex ......or seduce her.........as she doesnt like her husband.just with her for sake of ...
A. 3 December 2010: FORGET it... NOW!
Take love in your heart and turn around. Thank her for the love she gave you and then give it back, so she can find the power in her soul to solve her situation INSIDE her family.
At your age, yes, your ego will drive you and make... (read in full...)
My sex drive has gone through the roof! So much so that I am even considering an affair, what should I do?
Q. Dear forum I am coming to you for help as I there is no one else to turn to. I am 39 year old woman happily married for 13 years and a son.I love my husband dearly.My husband is the only man I have ever been with.The last couple of years my...
A. 3 December 2010: Hello,
maybe your husband can learn some tantric techniques to keep from ejaculating. Thereby his fittness will remain and he will have more stamina to follow in your desires.
Also, maybe you can learn to take your energy to other areas - NOT othe... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?
Q. I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she ...
A. 2 December 2010: You do not have to do anything, just do not have sex with her. Then gradually, the bonding will weaken and it will be more easy to gently let it go.
If you cannot do that, than take yourself seriously and make the best of it. Talk to her, find othe... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong in my life to be so unhappy
Q. Hi, I am sad. Feeling disturbed, keeping up appearances. I am 42, man. (Remember the Answer to the Question in the Hitch Hickers Guide to the Galaxy?) My problem is, that I feel alone. I am in a relationship now for about six year, we ...
A. 2 December 2010: I am not even married!
and
fortunately it is not completely loveless, but different then how I am beginning to imagine it can be.
I often think, it is meant to be so, for me to wake up and consciously create my life. Not meaning I should walk ... (read in full...)
What went wrong? Why his change of heart? Can I get him back?
Q. I have recently had a breakup with a guy I dated for 2 months. It was a short relationship, but everything seemed from the first date and so on. We went out every single week since we met each other. In each one of the dates we felt we had so many ...
A. 1 December 2010: Try asking him to do something for you, maybe fix a lamp or so, just casually, like you were friends. Don't try to claim him or bind him to you, but try and make appointments for silly things like walking through the park or visiting a museum. So ... (read in full...)
Is this a bad sign? Lack of eye contact
Q. Hi there I am worried about something but it sounds trivial. My boyfriend hardly ever makes prolonged eye contact with me. I think he does love me because he tells me he does, and he puts me first. Plus we love to be in each others company, but...
A. 1 December 2010: I wonder, being "sensitive to my needs and makes me feel safe and secure" also takes a lot of perception. Maybe, in long eye contact he starts getting feelings that are a bit overwhelming. Maybe internally, he just wants to grab you and kiss you and ... (read in full...)
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