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Can't stop thinking about wanting a boyfriend!

Q.   Well i really need help well i am 14 nearly 15 and lately i have been getting this feel that i want a boyfriend and i know that there will be plenty of time for that when i am older but i dont know how to stop this feeling because i cant stop thin...

A.   31 December 2009: You'll find one when your actually ready. Your nearly 15, course your going to feel this way at this age, most teenagers do! Jessbabyy x... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is texting multiple women

Q.   so i know it was wrong but i went through my boyfriend's phone and i found that he has been texting multiple women, before he used to call me when he was at work but he stopped, that is what got me suspicious( he works at night) one call he talks to ...

A.   28 December 2009: Hunny you need you sit him down and talk about your relationship. Maybe ask him why he doesn't call you anymore when he's at work? Don't tell him you went through his phone until he admits to something. Your worth more than to be messed around! Mail ... (read in full...)

This jealousy is killing me!! Please help. Any advice!

Q.   I have a real big jealousy problem about my ex. She split up with me about 4 months ago as she said she no longer wanted to be with me. It hurt me a lot and im still not totally over her. I've read all the advise and done the things to get ov...

A.   27 December 2009: Tell her you still feel this way. If she is harsh then shes not worth being jealous about. Hope I helped, mail me for further advice or if you don't understand something. Will reply as soon I can! Jessbabyy x... (read in full...)

Should I take my chance?

Q.   ok, i've had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year. (i'm a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my ex bff who knew i liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. be4 i got my chance 2 show him how i feel he starts dating a girl ...

A.   27 December 2009: Just act yourself and maybe be there for him when he needs help about his relationship. Just let him like you as a friend, maybe meet up if your the confident type; tell him it would be nice to meet him and see what hes like. You could maybe tell ... (read in full...)

I feel the need for constant reassurance - how do I stop this?

Q.   Dear all, I'm just looking for some advice. I have a big problem relaxing when I meet a new guy. I met a guy the other week and we all met up with our friends last night for drinks. Although he's quiet we did get on and were holding hands and ...

A.   27 December 2009: Chill out! If he likes you and it is meant to be then he will contact you. But do things to keep you distracted and go out with some friends or ask a friend to help keep you in a happy mood? Hope I helped :) Mail me if you need firther help or didnt ... (read in full...)

How do I know when my girlfriend "is in the mood"?

Q.   hey im a 14 year old boy who is wondering when a girl gets in "the mood". you know i dont wanna have sex yet cause i know im to young but you know i wanna finger her and all that other stuff. my girlfriend is 14 and she likes the first and second ...

A.   27 December 2009: Leave it until your sure she is ready. Yes she may drop hints, this could be just simply bring up the subject about going further or other conversations similar. Maybe ask her what she had done with other boyfriends? Obviously you dont want to scare ... (read in full...)

Can't get her off my mind. What is this all about?

Q.   I am over 50. Married for over 25 yrs. A stranger approached me on a flight. She wanted to sit in unoccupied seat on my row,she was sitting one row back. She was talkative, possibly looking for a husband, she's divorced with 3 kids. E- mail r...

A.   26 December 2009: You've been in a 25 year relationship. Cause your gettin fed up and you want to try something different, but you obviously love your wife if you've been with her this long. Don't risk anything and stay with your wife. If you really want to then tell ... (read in full...)

Best friend slept with my girl and it bothers me!

Q.   im 17 and ive been dating this girl for about two months. shes 15 and has made mistakes in her life, she has a baby girl, but i really liked her. people told me the child shouldnt matter. before we started datin she had a crush on my best friend. ...

A.   26 December 2009: Listen to your friends they seem to know whats best for you. Your worth more than being ignored. Ask her why she's like that in school and that your fed up of being messed around. Send me a mail if you need any help or just to tell me how it goes. ... (read in full...)

Wait till school starts or just kiss him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I started going out on the last day of school, which was a week ago, and we havn't seen eachother since then, but we are going to see eachother in a few days. I really like him, and I want to kiss him, but because we havn't done ...

A.   26 December 2009: Go for it, if it goes well then you'll know whether to do it again. Send me a mail if you need any help or just to tell me how it goes. I'll definitly reply! Hope I helped! Jessbabyy x... (read in full...)

Does he like me, am I paranoid or is he messing with me? Help!

Q.   i really like a guy i met at a roller rank, he kinda follows me, but in a good way. like ill be with friends and go to the snack bar, and he will then leave, then i would go back, and he'd follow. i like him but i think he is older than me. a year ...

A.   26 December 2009: This is really simple. Ask him!! Send me a mail if you need any help or just to tell me how it goes. I'll definitly reply! Hope I helped! Jessbabyy x... (read in full...)

Is there a probability that she is sleeping with others?

Q.   I am still in a sexual relationship with a former partner. I suppose I get to see her once a fortnight or once a month. So far she has not been keen on us getting back together formally. My question is do you believe she have other sexual par...

A.   26 December 2009: The answer to the question you ask her is most probably yes. If you say you only sleep with her once a month then who can say whether there are other guys like you asking themselves the same question. If shes not keen on getting back together then ... (read in full...)

How often should I email him?

Q.   How often is it ok to e mail a male friend youve recently met-no romance but has given his e mail to you without being too desperate?? What sort of things does one put in an e mail when you like him but dont want to scare him off? Thanks ...

A.   26 December 2009: This really depends what he's emailing to you in the first place. Anything you say, he should reply to if needed. If not then you will have got the message, Keep replying and he should reply back. Just act friendly, then he will have no reason to be ... (read in full...)

How do I approach her?

Q.   I really need advice on aproaching a girl.I'll just explain my situation first.I'm 16 and female,I dont much care for labels,all I know is I definatly like girls,and I definaltly like guys.I had a boyfreind not long ago bout found it very..very ...

A.   26 December 2009: You've got eye contact, so approaching her in any way shouldn't feel to weird. She obviously likes something about you if you say shes continuously looking at you out of the whole crowd of people! Just go over to her and start up a conversation, ... (read in full...)

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