Why can't I get over a guy that I barely had a relationship with?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a wonderful guy. When I first met him, I had been hanging out with another guy for about 4 months. I was very attracted to this other guy, but I didn't feel comfortable hanging out with 2 guys at once...
A. 10 January 2010: Try (emotional attractions). These websites may help. I to am trying to get over a "barely new you" relationship that had no way of working out. Maybe you letting go of the older guy is making you feel a bit guilty. Maybe your thinking this could ... (read in full...)
Are they mind games or is he scared of his feelings?
Q. Recently the man I was seeing decided that he was confused about his feelings and wanted no contact for an indeterminate period of time. I have totally respected that request, despite feeling pretty bad myself - I have not phoned, texted, emailed or ...
A. 10 January 2010: He's being truthful. If he's close to your age I am as well, he could be feeling many things. Fear(not of you) his own emotions. Previous letdowns. Unable to make a commiment. Not that he wouldn't try but doubting himself. I would say 99 perecet of ... (read in full...)
He's so tight and accuses me of taking money when I don't
Q. I have been with the same guy in a relationship for 14 yrs, not married, I raised my own kids, and they were grown, and then after 9 months after meeting him, I was put on the spot to stay with him and raise his kids, I could have said no, but I ...
A. 9 January 2010: It sounds like you are a good person, who is in over her head. You've raised your kids. It may be asking to much to raise someone else's. Everyone needs someone in their life. Maybe you will me someone who will appreciate your good heart. When you ... (read in full...)
Can this affair work? I am planning on divorcing my husband.
Q. I have asked my husband of 18 years for a divorce about 7 months ago. We have 2 kids, over the age of 10. I have had several affairs because for years I haven't been attracted to my husband, and married him dishonestly-because he seemed like a good ...
A. 28 December 2009: You should see the new Alec Baldwin Meryl s. Movie. Sounds like your ending.
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Need advice on meeting someone, who likes me for ME.
Q. I just cant win. Men have told me to hold back when giving sex-but when one holds back then a man isn't interested in getting to know you! If I hold back they automatically think I am looking for a husband (I am divorced and dont want a husband) ...
A. 27 December 2009: I am over 50. If I was 30 and you gave away to quickly I would probably think you were really into me. Since I am who I am my 1st thought would be how many others have had their way. Be patient. If he's really worth it he will also be patient.... (read in full...)
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