Will my family disregard him because he's a muslim?
Q. I am in a li situation here! Need some advice! I have been kinda seeing a lad for a while, who is such a nice guy, he's kind, caring and recently told me he loved me (I didn't say it back as I dont feel that way) Only one problem... I com...
A. 27 November 2006: You described this person as kind and caring. That is what you have to judge him by. It doesn't work to judge a person by their religion. There are so many variations within every religion that it just won't work! Many, many, muslim leaders have ... (read in full...)
Am I in the minority because I've only dated one girl as a teenager?
Q. I read on here that dating at high school is the normality of life as a teenager. I am 18 and have only dated one girl and that wasn't even a proper relationship. Does that mean I'm not normal?...
A. 27 November 2006: Some of the people with the best relationships I know didn't have any relationships at all in high school. My brother is one; he didn't date in high school, and dated only one person in uni before he met his future wife, and he hasn't looked back. ... (read in full...)
He drinks and hurts me so we broke up! But he calls all the time--what should I do?
Q. I need help I broke off the relationship with this guy after a year of dating because he starts drinking an tries to hurt me bad and it happen like 3 time and I told him I cant take it any more I no he loves me but he dont no how to handle his ...
A. 27 November 2006: Do stay strong, don't go back to him! You deserve better than that. Love has to be proven with actions, not just words. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't be hurting you. So many women in relationships with abusive men keep going back to them ... (read in full...)
He complains that I'm quiet
Q. I'm 17 (18 in May), and my boyfriend I recently started having sex. Now, he complains that I'm quiet and I don't do anything. What can I do to show him I enjoy it, or to get more involved?...
A. 27 November 2006: Most guys love it if you sigh and moan a bit when they are doing the right thing. It lets them know that you are enjoying yourself, and in general that is a huge turn-on. You're new to all this, but experience and confidence will help you relax into ... (read in full...)
It seems no-one really sees me for who I really am
Q. I'm 23, I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago now. I have been single and getting along with my life fine up until a few months ago. It feels like my confidence had deflated into nothing. I'm not sure of myself and the decisions I make. I feel ...
A. 27 November 2006: It sounds like you may possibly be suffering from depression. If you have been feeling down, depressed, and hopeless in this way for a consisenst period of more than a month or so, I would reccomend talking to your doctor. I have suffered from ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my best friend is 23 year old lesbian. My Mom doesn't like it..so what can I do?
Q. I am lboys friend and using his account to get my question answered Well it starts like this.... i am a girl who is 15 and my best mate is a 23 year old lesbian. it is a normal friendship like it would be between sum 1 of my own age. i stay over...
A. 22 November 2006: The only thing I could suggest is to have an honest and straightforward conversation with her about how you both feel about this. You need to find out exactly what is worrying her, and explain to her why she need not feel threatened. Try paying some ... (read in full...)
Should I go to brother's overseas wedding?
Q. My bro met this girl who lives in Austraila on the internet. Has been chatting online with her for 5 years He flew to AUS and spent 3 MO. with her Now they are engaged. Now my family expects me to fly over in July to see him get married. I find t...
A. 22 November 2006: The cost would be a bit over the top, wouldn't it? I don't think it should be an issue if you ask your brother about a second ceremony in your own country, just as long as you are prepared to accept his descision and not make a fuss if his answer is ... (read in full...)
Not sure if he'll say yes or no...so should I still ask him out?
Q. i like a guy but i dunno whether i should ask him out because i dont know whether he will say yes or no, he's cute but i dont know him really well i only know him slightly but i know he is really sweet...
A. 22 November 2006: Yeah, I'd give it a go. If you're nervous, though, maybe you could just try chatting to him a bit more first,
flirt a bit and see how he reacts to you. If you feel comfortable, ask him out then. If you still don't, maybe you could work up to it b... (read in full...)
I'm curious on how pre-martial sex is perceived!
Q. what do people think about pre-marital sex? i grew up in a religious family, but waiting until marriage made a lot more sense when i was 19. now i'm 27, and i'm curious. does anyone really wait this long? is it bad if you sleep with someone in a ...
A. 22 November 2006: I can't answer for everyone, and I suppose the point of view varies around the world. In my personal opinion, there is nothing sleasy or immoral at all about sleeping with someone who you are in a committed relationship with. Sleasy is when you are ... (read in full...)
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