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writes: I'm 17 (18 in May), and my boyfriend I recently started having sex. Now, he complains that I'm quiet and I don't do anything. What can I do to show him I enjoy it, or to get more involved? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): I love moaning and groaning and getting carried away with the moment.
Try to really get into the whole thing with all your might and you should start making noises naturally, but dont do fake porno like noises thats just not real life!!.
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reader, Jessamy +, writes (27 November 2006):
Most guys love it if you sigh and moan a bit when they are doing the right thing. It lets them know that you are enjoying yourself, and in general that is a huge turn-on. You're new to all this, but experience and confidence will help you relax into it more. Try to move with his rhythm, and perhaps wrap your legs around him. Keep grabbing kisses on his lips, neck, shoulders, etc, keep moaning quietly (or loudly!), and let him know when he's doing something right. If nothing else, it will encourage him to keep doing the things which you enjoy most! Try to just relax and have fun:)
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reader, megSTAR +, writes (27 November 2006):
hmmm, i dont think i can tell you what to do, thats up to you. ask yourself a few questions though- you do like this guy right? and you do like sex? if you wanna make him happy- cosmo always has some amazing tips. go online, ask around, theyres nothing wrong with that. show him you want passion, and that you like sex. i promise it wont be awkward, try not to think about it too hard
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