My bf wants a child with me! And I don't want that because he's so unstable..help!
Q. So, my boyfriend of 7 yrs is giving me an ultimatum of leaving me in March because he feels he doesn't have a "family" with me. Mind you he has a 13 yr old daughter and a 17 yr old son who he thinks might be his but he's not really raising either ...
A. 17 January 2012: for the anonymous male reader..I just wanted to clarify something my kids have not witnessed any of the crazyness..this looser boyfriend of mine always acted up when we were alone. This is why I am leaving before anything escalates.... (read in full...)
Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?
Q. So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses ...
A. 9 March 2011: I called the girl and she told me that they had sex and he had slept over her house and this was all happening when he used to tell me he had to go an visit his sister which lives around the girl's neighborhood.... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?
Q. So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's ...
A. 29 December 2010: Thank you, I will look into the site. Enjoy ur holidays.... (read in full...)
Why do I feel sad instead of moving on? He was abusive and violent.
Q. Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys ...
A. 21 December 2008: Thanks so much for ur advice so helpful. I know this is for the best but it's so hard. I defitnetly need to seek help to help me realize that I deserve better.thanks again... (read in full...)
I just kicked my boyfriend out of the house for trying to choke me!
Q. Confused, just kicked my boyfriend of 3 years out my house cuz he tried choking me 2x's with my kids in the house. I know he loves me cuz he tells me but why should I want this man back in my life being that he has a short temper, violent and I have ...
A. 8 November 2008: Thanks to all the answers very helpful... (read in full...)
How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love?
Q. How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love? I am seeing a wonderful guy but I have never trusted men easily. I've had a few knocks it's true, but my trust issues do not seem to be based entirely on past experiences or my childhood. ...
A. 29 August 2007: I truly understand where your coming from but you should always follow your gut feelings. There is no excuse on all those hangups and text messages. If theres nothing to hide then he should feel free to check the messages in front of you. Leaving ... (read in full...)
My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.
Q. Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring ...
A. 29 August 2007: I'm sorry that your in a relationship like that. The best thing to do is see if you can go to counseling since, you love him, but if that doesn't work I would defitnetly find a babysitter and make plans with your girlfriends. If he wants to be left ... (read in full...)
I moved in w/ my gf and her family. All I do is clean for them! My gf notices my attitude. What can I do about it?
Q. Hello all, I have a serious attitude problem. I have had one all of my life I think?....Atleast I've been this way to my mom and my brother for as far back as I can remember. My mom always tells me, you'll be lucky if someone actualyl stays with you...
A. 29 August 2007: It sounds like your probably getting pissed off because you feel your doing everything in the house. That's normal. First of all the stuff youi need to be picking up is your's and your girlfriend..no one else. If that doesn't work out then you need ... (read in full...)
My mother hasn't spoken to me in a month and has been telling my children lies!
Q. A liitle confused. My mother hasn't been speaking to me for over a month due to the fact that I went back to my ex who she doesn't like. Mind you I have two boys ages 12 and 6 who she has been putting stuff in their heads which I think is not right ...
A. 29 August 2007: Thanks for taking your time to even give me your advice.... (read in full...)
Do you think it's worth even giving him another chance?
Q. Here's a little scenario that just happened yesterday with my boyfriend who I just took back a month ago. We were heading to the beach and we started arguing about me telling him to put on a shirt because he's very flashy with his vehicle and to top ...
A. 9 August 2007: Just want to say thanks to all you guys who answered my question. Very helpful answers..... (read in full...)
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