How do I handle nasty girls at work?
Q. Why are these girls so horrible? I'm so upset:(? I got a new job 2months ago and the girls I started with are just plain nasty. They all formed a little group immediately and left me out and that's fine with me but they just won't leav...
A. 14 July 2013: Please do NOT go to HR ! You will make your manager look bad and then you will become,as the man in the post said, a whiner and also a liability! In other words HR will side with the manager who will do or say anything to cover her own job security ... (read in full...)
I just really wish I knew if he really likes me or if I'm just being used.
Q. I really like this guy, we work together and know each other for about two years. All we are right now is friends. About six months ago we started to have sex and he doesn't want anyone to know because its no ones business. Well we still do and we ...
A. 5 February 2013: If a man keeps you a secret you better believe he has a significant other. He's using you. Absolutely. ... (read in full...)
The woman I like romantically only seems to want a flirty/ sexual relationship and I want more. What can I do?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is going to be long. I'm not a player or anything, decent guy, however I am very good looking, I'm a suit, and I'm pretty 'alpha' guy. However, I am absolutely nervous right now and need some advice because I don't know what...
A. 5 February 2013: Did you consider that it is human nature to want what you cannot have? Your attraction to her is based in your responses to yourself. You don't really know her do you? And in not dating you she is ensuring your obsession with her. Back off quickly ... (read in full...)
Will my married lover ever leave his wife?
Q. I've being dating a married man for a year now and initially I thought he was single because he is a young guy. After 3 weeks of getting to know him and fallen for him, he told me he had a wife and they got married because the lady was a girlfrie...
A. 5 February 2013: Listen to SageOldGuy. He's absolutely spot on. Happened to several friends of mine. Same scenario. But usually the married guy would say "when my kids are in high school I'm leaving my wife". Funny. One of the married men who kept my friend Salma ... (read in full...)
I'm trapped in my married life. How do I prioritize my life? My parents? My family? My lover? My marriage? My husband? What I want?
Q. I am in a dire dilemma of my life and in serious trouble. I am in love with my married boss and he too loves me but neither did he committed to me nor I asked anytime as I knew it he was married before we got into relationship Later I married the ...
A. 5 February 2013: You married someone your parents chose? Is this a cultural or religious habit or are you just refusing to take responsibility for your decisions? First you must grow up and realize you are captain of your own soul. No wife should be raped and the... (read in full...)
Since we took the distance out of the relationship he's been treating me badly
Q. I was in LDR for past 3 with my bf and since I came back my bf is acting weirdly. He is treating me like shit all the time, forgets to call me even for a week. Never goes out with me anymore, doesn't want to break up also. What should I do, pls help ...
A. 5 February 2013: What changed? Are you different or do you feel maybe he is different? If you haven't changed in personality or looks assuming he knew you before you left, then face it. He is no longer that interested and is pushing you far enough away but keeping ... (read in full...)
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