How do I regain my dignity back after lashing out at my cheating ex and friend?
Q. Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discover...
A. 31 July 2015: I don't blame you.
Personally, I would have done a lot worse! ... (read in full...)
I do want him back. We can't seem to break free of each other. What can I do now that it's become a friends with benefits situation?
Q. I'm in love with my ex. We talk several times a week, hook up regularly and have done for more than a year- basically since we broke up. He's cold and distant and at times when we meet up I feel unwanted and like i've become a "friends...
A. 29 July 2015: stop sleeping with him!
I stopped sleeping with my fwb as i had the same "we can't break free of each other" attitude. But then afterwards we actually become real good friends.
Now If I see him, he takes me for a meal and he gets no sex. I feel ... (read in full...)
FWB rules-what's appropriate and what's not?
Q. I'm getting ready to get into a fwb situation for the first time in my life. This is someone I dated a long time ago for 5 years. Since the BU, there are no lingering emotions. We f***** well together and are both wanting to start that up again. I ...
A. 26 July 2015: I've been on/off with my FWB for over four years. Let me tell you, we all think that we are not going to develop feelings but at least one of you always do.
He's destroyed every relationship I have ever had and vice versa. Because they're ... (read in full...)
How to elevate my very low self-esteem.
Q. Hi, I'm 21, and I have a problem with my self-esteem. I never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy, which slightly bothers me (not much though), but my issue is that I continue to be afraid of dressing up to look good because I hate when people leer at ...
A. 2 June 2014: Hi there, I have always been a little self conscious about myself. Not my looks but more the way I dress. Like you I can't stand people stirring at me so I dress quite plainly. One thing I didn't realise was that by dressing quite plainly I... (read in full...)
How can I get over this jerk!
Q. There is this guy that I've known for a few months . I was in a 3 year relationship with my ex. When he broke it off I was devastated. When I met the new guy, my pain went away and now I can't stop thinking about this jerk.Most would think he's ...
A. 8 February 2014: you need to delete this jerk out your life... (read in full...)
Will a fwb relationship help me gain confidence?
Q. Hi Cupids, I was wondering if you could help me out. This is the age old Friends with Benefits question. I'm 18 and me and this lad like each other but neither willing to commit to a relationship. We've hung out and messed around a bit and ...
A. 8 February 2014: No, Fwb if anything will destroy your confidence. ... (read in full...)
Since the event I just can't bounce back, is there something wrong with me or is this just hormonal?
Q. I just don't feel happy in my life at the moment. I'm in University and I have everything going for me I just need to work for the opportunities but I am just not happy. I push people away ALL the time, I blow up the tiniest problems and create ...
A. 3 February 2014: I know this may sound stupid but just take time out and go for an hour walk or something. but honest, a little bit of exercise, it makes the world of difference to your mindset.
You need to find a way to calm your emotions. Deep breathes, try thin... (read in full...)
Facebook is ruining my long-distant relationship!
Q. I feel like facebook is ruining my relationship. I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 10 months and things are pretty serious with us. I personally do not use or have a facebook anymore because there s...
A. 29 January 2014: Are you sure the relationship was fine before all this happened?
It's sounding to me that he either wants more attention from you or he is testing the waters a bit, wondering if he should be single.
It's just, why would he tell you they we... (read in full...)
I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty
Q. Hey, I am a 17 year old girl and I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty. I wouldn't consider myself as slutty because I'm not that kind of person, I have morals, ...
A. 28 January 2014: I agree with the answer below.
I wouldn't consider this slutty at all. I think when we are young we do worry about 'The number' but as you get older you will realise that it wasn't worth worrying about.
You sound like you have your head s... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to wait around for the right person?
Q. I am 24yrs old female and all my friends are getting married, settling down etc. The thing is, it's never really bothered me because I am all about finding the right person. Some of my friends however have recently starting saying that I am...
A. 24 January 2014: Yeah I do want to get married and have kids, I just don't want to be tied to the wrong person you know?
It's not like I've met the perfect guy and let him get away. I just feel like I haven't met him yet and so I shouldn't
settle with someone... (read in full...)
Do you think I've been used and he's just playing me along?
Q. So a few weeks ago I met a guy out on a night out, and we hit it off quite well! (he's related to an acquaintance of mine). We kept bumping into eachother on nights out and eventually exchanged numbers. We were on and off texting for a few weeks and ...
A. 21 January 2014: Wait it out until he contacts you.
In doing so, it will also give you a better chance of figuring out his intentions. ... (read in full...)
Why on earth do women agree to an FWB situation?
Q. After reading so many posts here and seeing what girls and women do around me, I have a question, why on Earth women agree to FWB situation?? I understand if casual sex just happens once, in a heat of a moment, once very rarely and it's not a no...
A. 15 January 2014: I ended up in FWB situation through lack of communication.
I got the wrong impression of his true intentions (thought he genuinely liked me) we acted like normal bf and gf would but when i finally asked him where it was all going he replied ... (read in full...)
I like this new guy I am talking to but my guy friend might be jealous
Q. Hello, I have a situation and I need some advice. I have been talking to this guy on and offline. He texts me everyday and we talk on the phone also. He is the nicest guy that I have spoken to in a long time. He does live far away and wants to come ...
A. 13 January 2014: Sounds like you really want the friend more. If a guy tells you that you are just friends he will very rarely change his mind, regardless of his feelings (if any)
However this new guy sets alarm bells ringing for me. Something about him doesn't ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is still friends with his ex friend-with-benefits. Am I selfish or obsessive in my response to this situation?
Q. I'm not sure if I am acting selfish and obsessive or if I'm acting as most girls would in regards to my current relationship. I have been dating my boyfriend since last summer. I had a boyfriend for 2 years before my current boyfriend, and we had b...
A. 12 January 2014: I think both of the respondents have points. You are reacting as anybody else in your situation would. I am not replying with intention to worry you but just rather to offer a perspective from this other girls point of view. Do you know why y... (read in full...)
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