My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex!
Q. My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex. They haven't seen each other for over a year and she says he was verbally abusive to her. She and I have been dating for 8 months now and are very happy and in love. Yet....she still talks to her ex....
A. 21 January 2011: i have made it clear that i am not comfortable with this, and done so as best i could without letting on that i have snooped. i have made a choice to not talk to exes out of respect for her, even though sometimes i would like to see what's up with ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex!
Q. My girlfriend continues to talk to her ex. They haven't seen each other for over a year and she says he was verbally abusive to her. She and I have been dating for 8 months now and are very happy and in love. Yet....she still talks to her ex....
A. 21 January 2011: I see your point, BUT
this is someone she was not happy with. she tells me she does not talk to him and that she does not want to talk to him. she complains that he initiates communication. so, she is lying to me and he continues to initiate... (read in full...)
What to get my 22-year-old girlfriend for Christmas?
Q. christmas is coming, and i can't think of what to get my girlfriend. we have been dating for fifteen months, we are 22 years old, and we live together. i have done a great job with gifts in the past, for last christmas, valentine's day,...
A. 9 December 2008: thanks everyone -
as for the ring - too much symbolism behind that. the first ring i buy her will be an engagement ring, if/when i'm ready.
as for clothes - she has wayyyyyy too many already.
as for the log cabin - we are already basically... (read in full...)
I can't stop imagining my girlfriend's sexual history. How do I express my feelings to her without making her feel like a slut?
Q. Hello. I have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. We live together, love each other deeply, and I know she wants to marry me (though I feel we are too young right now to do so). My problem is that over the course of our re...
A. 22 October 2008: right on, passionatelynumb.
i had had many opportunities to have sex, but for whatever reason never followed through. i hated myself sometimes for that but justified that that was just who i was, and that it would be special my first time because ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to move past the condom thing?
Q. Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate w...
A. 22 October 2008: hi jamie90 - i agree. i do think it is strange that she has done if before but not now with me, especially since she claims "i am the one". is there anyway to straight out ask her why she could do it in the past but not with me?... (read in full...)
Can we continue to live together as a threesome?
Q. I have been married for a few years now and recently i met a girl and she moved in with me and my wife, i have got children with my wife and after sitting down and talking for a long while we decided it would be best that we stay together but ...
A. 22 October 2008: have you seen the film "viky christina barcelona"
it involves an artist living together with his long time girlfriend and a new lover. great film, and really interesting.
but i don't know how in hell you could make it work.... (read in full...)
I can't stop imagining my girlfriend's sexual history. How do I express my feelings to her without making her feel like a slut?
Q. Hello. I have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. We live together, love each other deeply, and I know she wants to marry me (though I feel we are too young right now to do so). My problem is that over the course of our re...
A. 22 October 2008: i agree, mistyisle, these thoughts only bother me when we are apart. and i don't think she understands the ways these things bother me. she thinks i am a jerk for making her feel like a slut. i don't mean to, but i can't change how much it upse... (read in full...)
I love her, but am now questioning how the relationship began...
Q. May of 2006 I stayed at my friends apt for three weeks until I found my own apt for the summer. She is a girl, and we both liked each other at different times in our three year friendship. Almost immediately before I moved in, she was broken u...
A. 21 October 2008: yeah ithaca!
i know it's early to be making serious promises, but there are other factors that i won't go into here that are contributing to making me feel like i need to. short story, i have been living with her for free for two months as i try... (read in full...)
How can I get her to move past the condom thing?
Q. Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate w...
A. 20 October 2008: i haven't considered counseling....yet. problems with her past is a relatively new issue with me, as she is the first and only person i've slept with.
though she has settled on me as 'the one', i'm still unsure because a) i just graduate... (read in full...)
How can I get her to move past the condom thing?
Q. Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate w...
A. 20 October 2008: thanks everyone. of course i respect her wishes and will continue to. it is a little discouraging though. she knows her sexual past bothers me, and we just got into another fight about it (i get upset, then she feels hurt/like a slut) so i will ... (read in full...)
I can't stop imagining my girlfriend's sexual history. How do I express my feelings to her without making her feel like a slut?
Q. Hello. I have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. We live together, love each other deeply, and I know she wants to marry me (though I feel we are too young right now to do so). My problem is that over the course of our re...
A. 18 October 2008: thanks all -
i know i am being unfair to her, and i know i am being immature, but for someone with such a natural, potent imagination this has been very difficult for me to overcome.
someoneelse, i really like your advice in particular.
t... (read in full...)
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