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I depend too much on my boyfriend, how can I change this?

Q.   I have a problem regarding my social life. Seems like my only social life is my bf. I have no friends, because 1) Most of them moved away for college 2) The ones that stayed and I have grown apart, and got into different interests. 3...

A.   25 June 2008: Okay. You need to blow the whistle on him. He can't be possessive and he can't make you feel like you are his property. You need to do social things as much as he does. My suggestion to you is get back in touch with people you know in your com... (read in full...)

I'm having doubts about marriage, should I call it off?

Q.   I am supposed to get married in less than 3 months. I have to move to his city which is 4-5 hours away and relocate to another office for work where I don't know anyone. I am really scared about this and he doesn't seem to think this is a big deal ...

A.   25 June 2008: Alright. What you two need is a real discussion. I don't think that your husband is understanding your views. So - try this method. Write all of your feelings to him in a letter, and for a day DO NOT SPEND ANY TIME WITH HIM. Go out with your... (read in full...)

My period is 2 days late, pregnancy test is negative, am I pregnant?

Q.   I think I may be pegnant. the last time I had my period was may 23-28. i should have gotten my period on June 22 or somewhere around that.I'm really not 100% sure because my cycle is kinda irregular. me and my bf did have unprotected sex once a ...

A.   25 June 2008: Okay. Do not worry - pregnancy tests were made to read a hormone variant called HCG. And according to your tests, it is not prevalent, so DON'T WORRY =D. But as a safety - I encourage you to go to a clinic to take a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)

I'm sore after having sex, what could be the problem?

Q.   I've been having a problem lately with my sex life. both my boyfriend and i love making love to each other but the problem is that I'm always sore afterwards and i don't know why. when we first started having sex it didn't hurt as much but t...

A.   25 June 2008: Okay - Are you using a condom? Sometimes using it will make you skin down there a little chafed. ... (read in full...)

I'm almost 21 and a virgin. I need advice

Q.   I'm almost 21 years old and have not had sex yet. my longest relationship was about 3 months back in high school when i was 16. i really dont know what the hell i'm doing. i'm not gay lets get that out of the way. I just feel sometimes too ne...

A.   25 June 2008: Okay - My question to you is: why do you find your intimacy level so important? Even if you haven't 'lost your virginity' it doesn't mean that you are a failure. Personally - I'd also like to ask if you have anything in your life that you are ... (read in full...)

I've got a crush on a girl, what should I do?

Q.   well what do i do if i've got a crush on this girl and if i've seen her undress and she caught me and i want to do her while she sleeping....

A.   25 June 2008: Okay - well, I'm pretty sure if you were to be intimate with her, she may appreciate it more if she agreed to it. So if she's so cute, get to know her first. My suggestion to you is: "Have self-restraint." If all you want is a physical rela... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant and our relationship is troubled, what can I do?

Q.   my girlfriend is hving my baby, she is 12wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant she has ...

A.   25 June 2008: Wow. Okay - don't panic. This happens to everyone in their relationship especially when having a child. Having a child takes a lot of time and planning, so don't worry, your situation is normal. As a new mother, let her experience this wholely,... (read in full...)

How important are looks?

Q.   I was wondering some people's opinions... Well, one of my friends is extremely obsessed with the way she looks. She claims that if she were to ever let herself go after marriage and kids, then her husband would no longer find her physically attra...

A.   25 June 2008: Alright - What do I think? I think it should be alright - you can let yourself go and get a little heavier if you want to. However, keep in mind that you need to keep physically fit and maintain good health so that you don't end up cutting ... (read in full...)

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