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Very extreme, unhappy love. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, Imma 14 year old girl and I know this is gonna sound stupid but this is something that tears me down nowadays.. Im not just another foolish young child, I have an idea of the world and I understand what people will say, I don't just live in ...

A.   13 August 2011: Been there, done that. Had sex with a guy who was 32 (I'm 17) and it was a complete waste of time and heartbreak. Don't bother with him - find someone your age :)... (read in full...)

Penis size worry - (4 inches)

Q.   Hi Girls, can you please tell me if 4" size is ok for marriage it means 10cm is it enough to satisfy a woman? I know its not a micro penis but it is making me insecure and please advise which position is good to satisfy a woman with a 10cm penis ...

A.   4 August 2011: Visual stimulation is fairly important but I don't get a kick off the size I just love guys being naked :D... (read in full...)

If you were in my place, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for?

Q.   Hey Aunties and Uncles :) I was just wondering, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for? Guy 1: met him at a party last week, he is the same age as me (17), we had a lot of fun together just kissing but he is a virgin. ...

A.   22 April 2011: Hey, thanks for the replies; here's the update: guy 3 is not gonna work out which breaks my heart but it's out of my control. I'm going to a party with guy 1 tomorrow and I haven't heard from guy 2 in a few days. All that's left now is deciding ... (read in full...)

What would you think of this age difference?

Q.   Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

A.   18 April 2011: I'd think you're hardcore for following your heart and not caving in to society's expectations of a relationship :) ... (read in full...)

Views on kids before marriage?

Q.   Hey Agony's :) I just wanted to get the older and younger generations views on premarital children. I see that a lot of people nowadays are having children before even thinking of marriage. I was just curious as to what all of your opinions wer...

A.   15 April 2011: My mum had me and my brother whilst unmarried (we have different dad's). I've met my dad once and my brother doesn't know who his dad is and he's 20. It sucks not having the second parent there and I believe had they been married I wouldn't now live ... (read in full...)

What is your opinion of someone who has quite a few piercings on their body?

Q.   I currently have my first and seconds (lobe piercings), and my helix done (upper ear cartilage piercing) and in my left ear first piercing (lobe), i have a 3mm fleshy (stretcher) And i want: -My thirds -My tongue -My nose -My belly ...

A.   15 April 2011: Don't worry about it. My best friend has 28 piercings and people respect her for not being ashamed of showing self-expression :) have fun with them!... (read in full...)

Who is wrong here?

Q.   boyfriend cheated on me now he cant have any female friends. And im not supposed to have any either but on xbox live im new to it and a guy on there messaged me and said hey so i said hi. My boyfriend got pissed because i talked to a guy and hes not ...

A.   15 April 2011: He is in the wrong for cheating, you are in the wrong for allowing him to make the social boundaries. Don't let him control you for his mistake, and don't allow him to project the lack of trust in the relationship onto you. A healthy relationship ... (read in full...)

What do you think would help build my self confidence?

Q.   Hey. I’m 18 and have low self-esteem. I’d like some help. Over the last few years, I’ve suffered from very bad social anxiety. This has improved since going to uni but I still have self-esteem issues. I think this mainly comes from the way I look a...

A.   15 April 2011: Have you tried telling your friends how you feel? You sound like you need to find out who you are in yourself; it'd settle your insecurities. No-one is ugly. Don't measure beauty on what the modern world perceives it as; beauty is far deeper than ... (read in full...)

How do I get my parents to believe I am who I am and don't want to be like them?

Q.   This is a question about my mother....PLEASE READ!! Ok so Ive dealt with years of mental and physical abuse from my mum, she always tells me im worthless, no-one will love me, in useless, I'll never amount to anyone, I should just die already and ...

A.   15 April 2011: Ouch, that doesn't sound nice at all! As for your parents, tell them 'beauty's in the eyes of the beholder' and that for them to project their insecurities about themselves onto you is cowardly. As for friends, don't let them push you around. You ... (read in full...)

I'm not that experienced but my boyfriend is, I need help..

Q.   Okay so my boyfriend has been pretty sexually active before and I haven't. I want to know how to practice giving a blowjob before I do it on him?...

A.   28 February 2011: You don't need to practice - guys are so happy that you're going to give them oral, that they'll show you what they like. It's easier for a girl being with an experienced guy for her first time because he knows what he likes. Just make sure you're ... (read in full...)

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