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Im just a girl trying to find her place in this crazy, sometimes painful, but always beautiful world. I have had my heart broken, mended, tested, completed, loved...I just want to help people become the people they know they are, flaws and faded dreams, withhout pills to get through the night.

What signs are shown when someone still cares.

Q.   Me and my ex of 3 years broke up a little over 4 months ago. we lived together the whole time, had alot of ups and downs. but since the break up shes been dating different guys. How do i tell she still loves me and cares if we dont talk, because ...

A.   30 October 2007: your situation is dependent on the reason/reasons for the break up. the fact that she asked for space and is dating different guys suggests she is trying to move on. it also suggests that she does still care, otherwise she wouldnt need the space. ... (read in full...)

How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!

Q.   My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and ...

A.   24 July 2007: The "jon" dilemma is much deeper than discovering who this person is, and what there agenda is.I sense there are some trust issues on your behalf, which is normal considering there was a period of when you split up. You have a few options, You ca... (read in full...)

My male friend I like has started seeing someone but he texts me when he's drunk claiming he loves me

Q.   My friend always texts me or rings when hes drunk sayin that he loves me? we have only bin mates for bout 3/4 months.. but im really confused.. because i really like him! and 1 of my mates finks he likes me too! and shes seen all the texts he sen...

A.   24 July 2007: Well its obvious he has feelings for you, who knows to what extent, but i suggest you confront him and find out. No matter what the outcome, you should tell him how you feel about him and that by him calling and msging with confessions of love is ... (read in full...)

I love my best friend but don't want to lose our friendship

Q.   I have a friend that i have feelings for and i dont know what to do. i am 22 years old and i fell in love with my best friend he is everything to me. i now that he has feelngs for me but i dont now what to do because i dont what to lose him as a ...

A.   21 July 2007: I think before you make any decisions you should ask yourself if you could keep up the act of just being friends? If you keep burying your feelings, especially because they are returned, you might end up loosing him anyway. Will you feel like your ... (read in full...)

I'm getting my ego stroked by two others, so I want to dump my girlfriend

Q.   how do separate from my girl friend without troubles,secondly,am at the centre of two beautiful ladies claiming to be in love with me.how do i detect the one that really love me.please help me thanks...

A.   21 July 2007: Breaking up rarely comes without drama and troubles, but if your as honest as you can be, then maybe after time and space there won't be to much heartache. It seems like you have alreay mentally broken up with her, so be a man and tell her the ... (read in full...)

Do I leave my wife for this other woman?

Q.   Hi all, I'm in a very difficult position which will probably lead to lots of judgements about me, but, here goes: I've been married (very happily married) for 6 years to an amazing woman. About 6 months ago I met a someone and we hit it off ...

A.   21 July 2007: Difficult topic, especially seeing as your infedility didn't come from a place of being trapped...really it comes down to the question can we love more than one person at one time? Personally i believe we can only really give our heart to one pers... (read in full...)

His friends told lies and now he's broken up with me!

Q.   What do you do when your long term boyfriend breaks it off, (for stupid reasons of course) and doesn't want to talk to you, based on something his "friends" said. When in reality they aren't his friends, and want to have a threesome with you. Very ...

A.   21 July 2007: In a perfect world we should as indivduals be free to make decisions over who we date, but friends play a vital role in shaping our opinions on dating, romantic and our choice of partners. He is presently being a typical young male and getting defe... (read in full...)

After 6 years we broke up on New Years. He's now married with a child on the way - how do I get over it!?

Q.   On New Years Day of this year my boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me. He actually told me on Christmas Eve that he was interested in someone else. I've been through this before, so I just thought he was going threw another one of his crisis and ...

A.   20 July 2007: From his actions he sounds like he is has no idea what he wants, who he is, or how to exercise any control over his emotions. Playing around with your heart like that, full of empty words, its just not fair on you. Naturally you would be crushed,... (read in full...)

After a relationship ends does the partner ever eventually regret leaving the person that gave them everything?

Q.   They say that being nice never gets you anywhere. In my past relationships I have always been the 'nice' person and never got the same in return, instead I got walked over. After a relationship ends, does the partner eventually regret leaving the ...

A.   20 July 2007: Its not a question of "nice", or not...its more about you being a open, warm, loving person and most guys can't handle that. In a way you probably keep fallibg for the same guys, that walk all over you, and can't completely accept your love. Its ... (read in full...)

We both cheated and cant trust each other

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years. i cheated on him about 4years ago but i never told him. we lived together for 1 year last year.while we were in Europe and it was there that i got pregnant. so we decided that we should return home, ...

A.   20 July 2007: Love is such a complex emotion, but trust is a huge part of it and without it its never going to work. This isn't to say that you both can't get past previous mistakes, and regrets, but it will take time and you will have to work at it. Firstly, you ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend and so does my family but I think I have some lingering feelings for my ex

Q.   I am 19 years old, and a month ago i got engaged to my boyfriend of two years. I do love him heaps, but i think i still like my ex boyfrind of 3 years. My family hate my ex, but love my current boyfriend. I dont think i want anything to happen with ...

A.   20 July 2007: I am guessing that the ex was a first real love?...if so, there will always be something there, just like the first time we expereince anything is stays with us. This doesn't have to mean that you want to be with him, or that you can't still see ... (read in full...)

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