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He called me a psycho gf and dumped me!

Q.   I made a mistake the other night, I was a psycho girlfriend. My boyfriend and I were going to hang out as normal around 730 to watch a game on tv. He called about 620 to say he was going to his old bosses and might not be back right on time but he'd ...

A.   14 February 2009: He sounds like a terrible person and I can't believe that you'd even WANT to get back together with him. Block him on facebook and don't contact him again!... (read in full...)

Would you date a girl with this sexual past?

Q.   She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...

A.   14 February 2009: True, I think it's a shame that anyone here has judged her harshly. To each their own, everyone's sexual experience moves at a different pace. I think it's a terrible thing to hold against someone. ... (read in full...)

Why won't he stop making contact with his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me twice with the same girl, we broke up after the second cheating occurred.He dated her for three years. they broke up after a big fight. then we ended up getting back together. How do learn to trust him. he still make ...

A.   11 February 2009: Just a note on one of the comments - the son he has isn't with this woman (or at least it wasn't mentioned if that's the case) so there is no justified reason for him to keep in such regular, close contact with her. He really doesn't sound ov... (read in full...)

I was unfaithful but never had sex. My wife doesn't believe me, how can I get her back?

Q.   Me and my Wife of 2 1/2 years just recently separated. I was unfaithful more than once and twice with the same female. No sex whatsoever was involved at anytime, but she doesn't believe me. I'm sure I wouldn't either if I were in her place. I also ...

A.   11 February 2009: You should try some couple's counseling as a way to show her you're serious about working through your issues and remaining faithful to her in the future. In a setting such as that you'll be able to talk about what's truly bothering you and pushing ... (read in full...)

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

Q.   I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

A.   11 February 2009: Her behaviour isn't your fault. If she feels like she can't move on with you in her life then you should respect this. Especially since you don't know all the circumstances, for example, I'm sure that her new guy would hate hearing about you still ... (read in full...)

My long distance relationship is in slight crisis mode, help?

Q.   My girlfriend is having trouble in college. She's trying to make friends, however, she made none. Everyone calls her name and looks down on her as stupid or a weirdo. I can't do anything to help her right now because she lives in Rhode Island while ...

A.   11 February 2009: I understand how hurt you must be after finding out that she has feelings for someone else. But if you feel the need to break up with her to find someone who feels you are enough to satisfy their needs so they don't need to rely on another man, then ... (read in full...)

He went running back to his ex!

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years i paid for his car and help him financially. his ex girlfriend called and said she want him back and he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what...

A.   11 February 2009: You deserve someone so much better that this guy. I know it will be really hard but you need to let this go and move on. And I'm sorry to say this, but you will need to be especially strong if he 'changes his mind' and tries to come back to you. If ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I can trust him again after he sent naked pictures of himself to other girls?

Q.   So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and three months. We have had our up and downs as in any relationship but he's caused quite a few of the downs. For example, during July this year he had left his email open on my computer. I was ...

A.   11 February 2009: The first thing you should look for in a life-long partner is someone you can trust. You need someone who will be honest with you as well as respect your feelings. For instance, if those pics of his ex really were from 6 months ago, then why was ... (read in full...)

Would you date a girl with this sexual past?

Q.   She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...

A.   11 February 2009: Sounds like she's had a tough time in the past. That's usually the case with people who've had that many sexual experiences at such a young age. However you also say that in more recent years (2 at 19 and 1 at 20) she's only slept with 3 people in ... (read in full...)

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